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Re: Anyone ever fumble a genuine good girl? Regrets
I understand your initiative, and I agree that saying “you’re the prize” without context can be misleading or even counterproductive. But for many men, adopting that mindset is essential; not to place themselves above others, but to establish agency. It’s about becoming the mental point of o...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: Passing acquaintances game
If it worked, then it's good. I think you're too cautious which is understandable considering your environment, but you should just go for it without overthinking.
What you did with girl was solid, from my experience going too fast, for example suggesting something the same day, just puts too muc...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: Passing acquaintances game
You have this playing out nicely already. Keep it natural, but next time you see her mention something you're about to do after work and invite her to it (preferably the next day).
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: Passing acquaintances game
Most of your game will be reliant on text. So, once you guys start talking IRL by the end of the convo: you either get the digits, or somehow find them on Instagram and follow them (very easy if you already have coworkers in common). That's because you'd mostly be busy with work when seeing each oth...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: LDR Girl Brought Up Moving — Now She’s Stressed That It’s “Real”
It seems like you acted sooner than she was anticipating. She's certainly feeling the pressure.
There's certainly an element that you haven't paid attention to at play here. Because if she hasn't reassured you the last time you spoke, it means she's weighing out her options and wether this relatio...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: Anyone ever fumble a genuine good girl? Regrets
You claim you weren’t emotional, yet your reply is filled with loaded language like: idiocy, logical male equivalent of you go gurrrl. As well as moral judgments like better human and personal jabs like saying you lack comprehension, and saying if you have daughters in the future they're going to ...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: Anyone ever fumble a genuine good girl? Regrets
Saying “you are the prize” isn’t about being inherently superior because you're a man, it’s about centering your value in your own progress and not spiraling into regret when a relationship ends. Focusing on self-growth means you don’t “fumble” anyone; people come and go, and it’s no...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: Anyone ever fumble a genuine good girl? Regrets
OLTR is destined to failure if the girl is fairly emotionally involved with you. Over time, the minor failed shit tests, the slip ups, and just the idea of you being with other women all start to build up, then she will definitely hold it against you.
There is no such thing such as 'fumbling' a goo...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: Plate continues egging on for more attention aka "spinning" - what's the next move?
That is indubitable. I also think it’s a way to avoid accountability or to seek out opinions that comfort the asking party.
I posted here multiple times, fully aware of what I needed to do, yet I clung to the ideals I had instilled in myself growing up.
This hesitation also undermines one’s co...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: is this scarcity talking, or is it worth trying?
This is something that I prefer. I am heavily invested with this girl. But I have vetted poorly. It seems like there are a lot of points that need to be addressed, that it's starting to feel like a training camp.
I have already started to detach emotionally which isn't easy itself. We have an upco...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: is this scarcity talking, or is it worth trying?
I agree with you. I am choosing this way. Although I am emotionally involved with her, I believe already expressing this boundary once was enough.
What's done is done now
11mo ago - Permalink
Re: is this scarcity talking, or is it worth trying?
True, it feels like an uphill battle. I've actually decided to take the exit route directly. I'm positive she's aware on some level that what she's doing is unacceptable, but she thinks that since there's nothing blatantly ill-intentioned happening (innocent post interactions), she can maintain the ...
11mo ago - Permalink
Re: is this scarcity talking, or is it worth trying?
If she is that way, then I vetted horribly haha.
My mistake while vetting her about this prior to exclusivity was asking the question directly; she obviously fed me an answer to my liking.
I have already started detaching. We have something going on in the next few days, I will have fun with it, ...
11mo ago - Permalink
Re: is this scarcity talking, or is it worth trying?
I also have to admit that I started avoiding confrontation, so the weak thing is just me trying to rationalize it
11mo ago - Permalink
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Re: Girlfriend of 8 years wants to go on a 'girls holiday' with her friend, but I do not trust her friend