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MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: I think I genuinely might have forgotten how to talk to women.
OP here. I am actually seasoned. 37 years old, been with over 100 women at least (lost count), but had a breakdown a few years ago on some psychedelic party drugs, and it sent me back to the stone ages so to speak - I isolated myself for ages and basically unlearned everything I know and became soci...
1mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: How to get your girl to validate you?
It's simple for me. Women that want you will validate you naturally. At least in my experience, that's how it's been. If a woman is not validating you at all, then move on to the next. Most women I've been with have naturally validated me, and I haven't had to ask and nor would I. It should just com...
1mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: I think I genuinely might have forgotten how to talk to women.
In my defense, I may appear to be autistic, but I'm not a whippersnapper lol.
1mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: I think I genuinely might have forgotten how to talk to women.
I see what you and Vermilion are both saying, and you're right.
My game 'used' to be tight a long time ago, and then gradually flat lined as I began to hide myself away for the following years after (last 5-6 years). Had a mental breakdown after stupidly trying some strong hallucinogenics at a part...
1mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: I think I genuinely might have forgotten how to talk to women.
1mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: I think I genuinely might have forgotten how to talk to women.
My game 'was' tight, not is lol. My game is so far removed from what it once was, I've genuinely forgotten how to talk to women.
I can of course talk to women normally, but I'm speaking specifically on game - the ability to charm them, use wit, flirt etc. that's kind of gone out of the window. I'm...
1mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Have you ever been tempted to go black pill?
Hypergamy, yes. Basically, you're the hot new thing until you're not. Women always think the grass is greener. Men are also guilty of this but to a lesser extent as women naturally have more options. It really depends on how they estimate their own worth, where they're at in life, and many other fac...
2mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Approach Paralysis
Even if it's just to ask the time or directions or something. Start off with random bullshit questions, and have zero expectations or outcomes. Work your way up from there. When you start to get more comfortable with this, then you can begin to escalate. You gotta get comfortable approaching first.
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3mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Approach Paralysis
Honestly bro, this is extremely normal. You are rejecting yourself, and that is the problem - not the girl.
Just go up to her and let yourself say potentially dumb, boring shit. You need to get it out of your system and get over it. It's the only way otherwise you'll be stuck in paralysis forever.
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3mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: 13% bodyfat but not seeing visible abs ?
100% agree that game is king. That's why we're all here, but there is a lift component to the teachings as well. It's all cumulative.
4mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: 13% bodyfat but not seeing visible abs ?
Abs definitely help though.
4mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: 13% bodyfat but not seeing visible abs ?
Abs either aren't developed enough or you're not quite 13% body fat, or need to hit closer to 11-12%.
I couldn't see my abs for about 2-3 years because I had a shitty diet and I loved my gaming chair a little too much, but I could always feel that my abs were there underneath. Luckily I have a fast...
4mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: erectile health?
Foreplay is your friend. Use it to your advantage to get out of your head during. Also, do lots of squats. Not with her, but as exercise. Train kegals.
If you still wake up with morning wood now and again, then your erections are fine.
5mo ago - Permalink
MidgetSpinner
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Anyone else feel like they're not made for the 9-5 life?
Yeah, pretty much everyone haha
5mo ago - Permalink
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