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MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: When Kind Gestures Become Expected Obligations
I do text girls but I create a sense of busy (which is completely artificial) and I text not that often and I reply after awhile
2d ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: When Kind Gestures Become Expected Obligations
It seems I'm doing pretty well in some aspects but not in the ones I've mentioned (paying more than I should, cooking, planning etc). For example, I've deployed a method not only with her but in general, that I don't msg often, if I text at all and I'm very disciplined about it.
I can tell the same...
2d ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: When Kind Gestures Become Expected Obligations
Man, I have no words, first of all ty for your time, there's nothing more to say besides that you have spent a lot trying to help me and this is priceless.
A lot of valueable points, really, but the phrase hit me so hard was:
> This probably happens in other areas: you mentioned cooking and money, ...
2d ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: When Kind Gestures Become Expected Obligations
Cannot argue with that, ty for your time mate
2d ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Opinions on my Destructive Behavior
Yeah sry English isn't my main language you have caught me :D
Well man, I don't know what happened and she could have told me the truth meaning she recalled of their dog and found everything strange.
She is still down to fuck, probably I was more disturbed than her
2y ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Asking 2 girls out at the same time in a close group, how is it viewed?
I like your strategy ty
2y ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Asking 2 girls out at the same time in a close group, how is it viewed?
Ty a lot for your time, first of all.
That's what I've thought. The group I'm talking about is a crossfit group where there are 2 guys and 8 girls, none of the guys are a threat for me but yeah, hitting on 1+ at once sounds strange even if I'm in a very good position overall socially.
In the gym the...
2y ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Girl's Values - How Much Do Weight?
Ty a lot for this comment, I haven't thought about that
2y ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: I am 35, started feeling major creep vibes from younger women and I don't know how to deal with it.
Hi there, the situation could be more tricky than you described.
Disclaimer: this is just food for thoughts
Is it possible that you misread the whole interaction? Maybe they aren't interested but you mistakenly believe so only because they talked to you. I'm a social bomb and I'm able to create ra...
2y ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Girl's Values - How Much Do Weight?
Sry for the mess, English isn't my main language but this shouldn't be an excuse for my poor writing, next time I will make sure to triple-checked and do my best to write correctly.
She has a bf since 4 years, but she isn't into him. She told me the relationship is basically over but she has to fin...
2y ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Looking to fix some social leaks - cold approach and isolating
I'm already really good at casual conversation and I get an overwhelming positive feedback.
Anyway I totally get your point and I agree with you, basically your advice is groundbreaking because it completely obliterates failure since I will start conversations with people are open to, if they aren'...
2y ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Looking to fix some social leaks - cold approach and isolating
Ty as well mate
I have enough social proof to drop any comment I like, it's not a brag but you know, even if I don't have any social media, everybody knows me and greets me both boys and girls, so yeah this qualifies as social proof.
Also, thank God, I'm not needy, yes I like girls, and I talk a lo...
2y ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Looking to fix some social leaks - cold approach and isolating
Ty for stopping by mate, I really appreciate it.
> and give her a compliment and make her day
this passage flipped completely how I approach this spot, you are fucking right, I make her day by give her a compliment and I'm very good at it, because I'm not needy and I don't want anything back, well...
2y ago - Permalink
MatteMatto
commented in Ask TRP
Re: How can I handle logistics if I don't have my own place?
Believe me, this is my top priority right now, but anything could happen. It could take from some weeks to some months.
2y ago - Permalink
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Re: When Kind Gestures Become Expected Obligations