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Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation

Rereading the comments, i gotta work on my patience, a decade problem of pmo won't vanish in a couple of months. I will be patient with my PIED. 6-7 months should get both my mind and my dick back to semi normal where I can feel attraction and move on with my life.I've half assed this problem enough...

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation

Roger that chief :)

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation

Will try is a a last resort but jerking off leaves me like a zombie.

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation

I will reread EP Method and implement it alongside PAA. That one hit deep "No one is gonna hold your hand bro."

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation

Will come back and post of my progress after a minimum of 3-6 Months

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation

For me once I use porn, I get heavy brain fog and feel lethargic for the next 4 days. it's like quicksand, once I'm in, I got no control. I feel like you're a James Clear fan too :) In 6 months, I think my dick will have had time to recover, I will try again. If I have no partners or anyone, I'll ...

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation

I felt that while meditating today, only thing I have is now. Future worries or past experiences can't be changed. Only thing I can do today is prepping for my future self

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation

For me, it's also about consequences where I don't really feel the weight of em till later. Thinking about what I will lose in the moment won't really sway me in the right direction (Evidence: Past years of stopping :) ). Nonetheless, it is an interesting method to develop further.

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation

Nothing these days has cheered me up except your reply man. - I am super familiar with r/nofap and r/pornfree, the nofap forum, easypeasy method,paid for coldturkey software. My current last streak was of 66 days. - I will take PAA seriously. I will focus on creating a network of people I can rely...

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation

Read everything G. EP Method, Gary Wilson's Book, every subreddit and forum that talks about it. I even tried mushrooms which help but it ain't the way.

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation

- I've tried to have sex twice but couldn't get it up so for me its 0. The shame of not being able to get it up has kept me from continuing but even more so ,porn has made me sort of asexual where I just don't feel attraction anymore and I just don't feel the charge the chase like before. When I'm o...

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Male Role Model

Thank you everyone for your replies, time to work on what you've said

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Male Role Model

Never thought I'd agree with someone with a Karl Marx pic :) Thanks for taking the time to put in a reply. When I wrote the post, I was kinda on the fence of having a mentor but now thinking about my current life and situation, I realized I def need one.

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Male Role Model

Regarding your questions: - Having some sort of a safety net against a wasted life. I know what I want to do. I just need someone to kind of oversee from afar. Someone I can ask for advice and support. I guess I can break down that role to multiple people as it might be a lot for one person to hand...

1y ago - Permalink

Lebbaeus commented in Ask TRP

Re: Male Role Model

Surely I will screen for the type of mentor I want, It's a nice idea to have a couple. I always thought it'd be just one dude master-student thing.. Thanks for the overall picture, I will keep some bullet points in my notes. Your first point reminds me of what I used to in school. I hung around ...

1y ago - Permalink

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