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Re: How to Pursue in Group Settings/Deciding who to pursue vs. going with the flow
No I didn't, I ended up touching Girl B on the shoulder before leaving, but didn't try at all with Girl A. Yeah, next time I'll decide who I'm pursing. I don't think teasing is my thing yet, but I'll put it on the back burner while I get better at escalating. I'll check out the blog for physical esc...
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
I appreciate the clarification on what to focus on, and the conversation tips. I'll keep at it!
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Re: Expert Advice neded - Broke/Unemployed game
> Did it work
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
Thanks for the advice. The conversation dies because I think I phrase it badly. Like one conversation, we were talking about reading, and I tried talking about a book I was reading but phrased it poorly and made it sound uninteresting. No one ever asks me about myself so I don't know how to talk abo...
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
Thanks for the reply. I like the idea of changing negative self talk into a goal instead of just trying to say it's not true. It seems way more productive. I'll keep working at it.
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
Thanks for the recommendation, I'll check it out.
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
My SMV is still low because: I haven't hit my goal weight, don't dress well, don't have a lot of friends, don't have hobbies, live with parents, work a bad job, and don't have confidence in myself.
What I'm doing about it: Still working on losing weight, I'm down 40 lbs but have 30 lbs left to go. I...
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
I feel like that analogy of digging out of a swamp is spot on. I'll keep working on my self improvement and keep digging. Thank you for the insight.
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
Yeah, the harshness is probably deserved as I've been doing a lot of ruminating instead of fixing my situation, so I appreciate the wake up call. I am pretty proud I approached yesterday even though I got shot down, even doing it while I was in a shitty mindset. I see what you mean about appreciatin...
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
No more mr. nice guy was definitely the book that spurred me into not moping around anymore. I tried the rational male but a lot of it didn't resonate with me, so I probably need to read it again. I'll try The Sex God Method as well, thanks.
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
Thanks, I'll keep working on improving while continuing to approach.
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
Thanks, I like the idea of using the negative (things I hate the most about myself) and turning that into a positive by taking action fixing it. I'll get on that. And yeah, I am using my virginity as a crutch and excuse.
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
How do you switch to an internal drive to better yourself though? I'm just using my anger/sadness as fuel right now, and I'd like to be intrinsically motivated, but I haven't had success switching it. Is there some secret to actually care about yourself, or is it something that naturally shifts over...
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Re: How do I work on my confidence? I have a major problem with it.
Yeah man, we got this. Just keep working on yourself and the rest will come. Also don't compare yourself to others, especially the successful guys on here, it'll fuck with your head (speaking from experience). Every week acknowledge the work you've put in to try in improve, and how the you from 1 mo...
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