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Re: 31 Year Old Virgin, Struggling with Cold Approaches
Yeah I've been taking a break for a bit to keep working on myself. Haven't touched dating apps since I find them more demoralizing then cold approaches. I'll keep working on networking, seems like my best bet now. Any advice on being sexy/flirty/not needy? I feel very "nice guy" a lot of the time, s...
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Re: 31 Year Old Virgin, Struggling with Cold Approaches
Yeah, I fucked up my diet recently due feeling depressed but am back on track again. I'm working out six days a week. For my social life, I'm going to the same events weekly(meetups, etc.). I don't drink so I don't really do any nightlife. I haven't made any friends or anything yet but am trying to ...
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Re: 31 Year Old Virgin, Struggling with Cold Approaches
Thanks, I like the idea of re-framing those thoughts as a goal I can work towards. Makes a lot of sense in hindsight.
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Re: 31 Year Old Virgin, Struggling with Cold Approaches
Great advice, I'll find one in my area and go to one.
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Re: 31 Year Old Virgin, Struggling with Cold Approaches
I get out of the house 4-5 times a week, either doing something new or going to an event group. I was lifting but was told to stop due to a hernia, so I've been focusing in on cardio and calisthenics. I work out every day for 20-30 minutes. The social stuff is recent, only the past 2-3 weeks, but th...
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Re: 31 Year Old Virgin, Struggling with Cold Approaches
Thanks for the advice but that's not for me. I don't feel like I need to get laid bad enough to get a hooker. If I'm 40 and still a virgin all bets are off though lol.
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Re: 31 Year Old Virgin, Struggling with Cold Approaches
Definitely need more practice with social situations. I've been cultivating putting myself out there more and talking to people.
For the second thing I'm working on trying a bunch of hobbies now.
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Re: 31 Year Old Virgin, Struggling with Cold Approaches
Thanks. Right now I'm attending events several times a week to see the same people every week and build friendships over time, so I'll keep working at it.
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Re: How to Pursue in Group Settings/Deciding who to pursue vs. going with the flow
Lol thanks.
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Re: How to Pursue in Group Settings/Deciding who to pursue vs. going with the flow
No I didn't, I ended up touching Girl B on the shoulder before leaving, but didn't try at all with Girl A. Yeah, next time I'll decide who I'm pursing. I don't think teasing is my thing yet, but I'll put it on the back burner while I get better at escalating. I'll check out the blog for physical esc...
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
I appreciate the clarification on what to focus on, and the conversation tips. I'll keep at it!
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Re: Expert Advice neded - Broke/Unemployed game
> Did it work
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
Thanks for the advice. The conversation dies because I think I phrase it badly. Like one conversation, we were talking about reading, and I tried talking about a book I was reading but phrased it poorly and made it sound uninteresting. No one ever asks me about myself so I don't know how to talk abo...
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Re: Fixing Mindset & Purpose
Thanks for the reply. I like the idea of changing negative self talk into a goal instead of just trying to say it's not true. It seems way more productive. I'll keep working at it.
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