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FiendingForRanch
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR of 5 years - Haven’t talked in 3+ weeks
Been another week of no contact. If it goes one more week I’m just going to break it off myself. Been doing other stuff in the meantime.
7mo ago - Permalink
FiendingForRanch
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR of 5 years - Haven’t talked in 3+ weeks
Completely agree, nobody who gives up this easily on a 5 year relationship is worth my time and attention. Absolutely insane response from her. The thing is we have talked about a final destination but she’s just really bad at communicating what she wants. This is a perfect example of that. I stil...
7mo ago - Permalink
FiendingForRanch
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR of 5 years - Haven’t talked in 3+ weeks
Agreed, people don’t end 5 year relationships over such simple things. Probably a lot more going on there. Freedom sounds nice but it’s a tough thing. We really were a good match and were happy 99% of the time.
7mo ago - Permalink
FiendingForRanch
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR of 5 years - Haven’t talked in 3+ weeks
Yeah light switch probably flipped honestly. I definitely haven’t been perfect at handling random tests like this but you live and learn. Haven’t been the worst about it either, there have been quite a few times where I didn’t take her shit and just pretty much said “deal with it” and move...
7mo ago - Permalink
FiendingForRanch
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR of 5 years - Haven’t talked in 3+ weeks
Thanks for the comments. Been another week and I haven’t reached out once and neither has she. One of those things that’s like wtf is even going on right now. She’s just instantly down to throw away 5 years. Working on other stuff though and honestly not too worried about it. Might give her an...
7mo ago - Permalink
FiendingForRanch
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR of 5 years - Haven’t talked in 3+ weeks
Yeah definitely could be. I apologized sincerely, so at this point she has an issue with who I am in a much broader and deeper way I think.
7mo ago - Permalink
FiendingForRanch
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR of 5 years - Haven’t talked in 3+ weeks
See some of my replies above for context. I left out what I said to keep things short and in the end, it wasn’t anything crazy in my opinion to warrant a reaction like this. I agree, feels like she’s looking for a way out and this is it. Women are sensitive asf sometimes man. We’re happy 99% o...
7mo ago - Permalink
FiendingForRanch
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR of 5 years - Haven’t talked in 3+ weeks
Thanks for the thoughts. I put the detailed situation in thread above if you’re interested in reading it. I think this pressed on a deeper issue like you said. She thinks I have a problem with who she is and maybe this is just the last straw. Coming from a large family of boys I grew up always get...
7mo ago - Permalink
FiendingForRanch
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR of 5 years - Haven’t talked in 3+ weeks
I avoided the details cause it wasn’t anything crazy but here it is. We had a full busy day doing back to back to back things. Breakfast, shopping, lunch, long hike, shower, then dinner. After the shower she started making dinner straight away and expected me to get going helping her. I was tired ...
7mo ago - Permalink
FiendingForRanch
commented in Ask TRP
Re: LTR of 5 years - Haven’t talked in 3+ weeks
Appreciate it. Kind of thinking it may be the exit window she’s been looking for. Agree with the oneitis thing. That’s why I’m trying to figure it out so I can just move on. Moving on mentally anyways at this point.
7mo ago - Permalink
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Re: LTR of 5 years - Haven’t talked in 3+ weeks