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ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: How do you psychologically handle her being a non-virgin?
Lots of wisdom in this OP, read it carefully.
10mo ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Establishing a Relationship with Women - N Count
Yes - of course that's top of mind. If I were to give her exclusivity and the behavior changes, I'm out. I know most people on here are pretty anti-marriage, but I want children and to raise them in a healthy nuclear family dynamic. Call me still matrix-driven, but it is what it is
10mo ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Establishing a Relationship with Women - N Count
I haven't brought up marriage to her. She brings it up to me, but I don't engage. I usually say "let's take it slow". I don't want to lead anyone on, but my intention is to leave the short-term relationship scene for something more meaningful - with her or someone else. Thanks for your comments
10mo ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Establishing a Relationship with Women - N Count
Sorry - meant to ask "Why do you think a woman's past DOES NOT affect the present relationship?"
But thank you for your response. I concede that it has been building in my mind. It sounds like you're suggesting to let bygones be bygones and evaluate LTR potential based on the here and now.
11mo ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Establishing a Relationship with Women - N Count
Thank you for your response. I don't think getting her a gift would do much since I already know she wants me.
11mo ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Establishing a Relationship with Women - N Count
thanks for the laugh haha
11mo ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Establishing a Relationship with Women - N Count
Yes exactly, I am thinking of becoming more serious which is why I posed this question. If I wanted to remain casual with her, I wouldn't care if she's been hoeing around.
Thanks for the theredarchive suggestion. I'll take a look.
11mo ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Establishing a Relationship with Women - N Count
Thank you for your insight
11mo ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Establishing a Relationship with Women - N Count
The reason I'm wondering about relationships is because I would want to give her exclusivity if she checks off the foundational boxes if that makes sense. She treats me well, but again, I wouldn't want to wife up someone that's been tossed around - personal preference.
I don't think I come off as j...
11mo ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Establishing a Relationship with Women - N Count
Fair - she's a smart girl and will make around $130k after finishing her master's. She's even willing to financially support me financially when I go to get my PhD to further specialize in my engineering field next year. From what I know, her family's middle class, but they have assets that she coul...
11mo ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Establishing a Relationship with Women - N Count
Insecurity? Please expand. Why do you think a woman's past affect the present relationship?
11mo ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: Sex Question
Thanks man, thought maybe I was doing something wrong. I can open this conversation up next time I see her.
11mo ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: How to get laid on the first date (advice + critiques needed)
Def being a pussy ngl. I don't enterprise on this opp. How would you recommend I suggest going up? If it's in your FR, that's cool too
1y ago - Permalink
ChadifiedAsian
commented in Ask TRP
Re: How to get laid on the first date (advice + critiques needed)
Of course that's the case in the beginning, but when I'm engaging in the date, they respond well to the kino or kino me. They also tug on my clothes during the make outs, so there's just a missing gap here. I guess - to rephrase, how else can I pull besides engaging in these make out sessions?
1y ago - Permalink
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