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Re: First Date ASD / LMR? Key Takeaways and Suggestions for a Newbie?
Thanks, i'll check out the book. RN im reading the entire sidebar to hopefully get some more answers.
I also need to actually apply these things IRL, but have successfuly created very few opportunities so far. After reading the reformed incel post i keep worrying i might end up wasting so many year...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: First Date ASD / LMR? Key Takeaways and Suggestions for a Newbie?
To answer my own question, my car's fast (not expensive) and she likes my driving fast. So that could work in my favor i suppose.
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: First Date ASD / LMR? Key Takeaways and Suggestions for a Newbie?
Well i did wanna do it. But i think it adds to the "relationship vibe" and she might think im pushing for it?. I think she could probably tell im somewhat inexperienced and reconsidered the lay. (at least for that night?). I also interpreted the "next time" she threw as a rejection. (Just like girl...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: First Date ASD / LMR? Key Takeaways and Suggestions for a Newbie?
I'll try that response if i get into a similar situation. Will for sure be interesting if she's down lol.
Though you are right, i should have a spot to bring girls over so i dont worry about this and make it easier for me.
I can get the place for myself on occasion for a night. You think i should...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: First Date ASD / LMR? Key Takeaways and Suggestions for a Newbie?
Sounds good, but for a first evening date i think prebooking is not good. I had no idea how it was gonna go.
For a second date after having escalated on the first, sure.
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: First Date ASD / LMR? Key Takeaways and Suggestions for a Newbie?
Haha glad to be a part of the tribe then.
This was my first experience with LMR so i just started being anxious and could not think clearly. I think i really need to internalize the fact that these things they say are only a "soft no" /test and should practically disregard them and do my thing unl...
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: First Date ASD / LMR? Key Takeaways and Suggestions for a Newbie?
Did my best to answer with what i know so far.
What do you think?
10mo ago - Permalink
Re: First Date ASD / LMR? Key Takeaways and Suggestions for a Newbie?
Trying to answer my own questions:
Guess i should have ended the date and let her uber after the second no since she wasnt going along and i could not turn it around. (But why?)
Obviously i should create more dating opportunities for experience and to care less about any single date.. (lay or not)
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10mo ago - Permalink
Re: How to improve social skills and establish a social circle to enjoy college ?
Thanks, i'll be waiting for the vibe post. In the meanwhile, i'll get up to speed on the fundamentals
1y ago - Permalink
Re: How to improve social skills and establish a social circle to enjoy college ?
Sorry for the format, i can't figure out how to get spacing to work in the replies section
1y ago - Permalink
Re: How to improve social skills and establish a social circle to enjoy college ?
I will check out your posts to learn some of these things.
Do you believe that with some effort and reading at least a partial social integration (in college) would be possible? You know, at least be in a couple groups and meet some girls that way.
I am asking because i think college is my best ...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: How to improve social skills and establish a social circle to enjoy college ?
Can you go a bit more in depth about the networking with girls? So far i've been against the idea of being friends with girls as i have heard it is not very rewarding. However, i see it may be useful if you can meet potential dates through a girl friend.
But how would you go about that? And how no...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: How to improve social skills and establish a social circle to enjoy college ?
Easier said than done, unfucking your brain wiring which was bad anxiety for anything girl related will take many approaches for sure. What are some easy ways you can do an approach in a college context?
1y ago - Permalink
Re: How to improve social skills and establish a social circle to enjoy college ?
Will definitely check out your posts, especially the convo skills guide.
When you say vibes, i assume you still have to throw in some "game" elements to not make the conversation too "friendly", correct? (In order to establish a flirty vibe)
What would you say are the most important ones so i can l...
1y ago - Permalink
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Re: First Date ASD / LMR? Key Takeaways and Suggestions for a Newbie?