I would also agree that on the contrary, no matter how unconditionally you love your gf, if she's pissing in your cereal every morning complaining and lowering her value.. you'd be fed up with her as well. Its a rule of reciprocity
I believe value should be displayed up front as man with the blend of conditional and unconditional love. Just like having boundaries, we love conditionally in our hobbies and work but should not hold back on showing it and should constantly work on elevating our own value. Keep the unicorn admiring her man for being the confident being he is.