There is more than a 50% chance that you are 90% wrong about this.
No worries. A magician can’t show all his secrets.
Can you do a double blind? Change the type and the compliment slightly so we can decipher the effects, without having the script?
-4. do tell the type of woman and the type of compliment
To your last paragraph, I’ve done well if the situation calls for it (usually takes a woman who’s looks define most of how the world interacts with her, so HOTT) by telling her I understand her plight / how being pretty can be a burden.
Broad statement, but mostly true:
What you can get away with without being labeled an asshole is directly correlated to your SMV in any given situation.