I've had a few oneitis, most of them were crushes. Not my ex. I still find myself idealizing her 2 months after dumping me. I see her as a 9:10 legit lol.
The worst part is, I'm idealizing the girl I first started dating, who was a virgin. And now since she's free from monogamy, is probably a slut.sk I'm idealizing a girl who no longer exists.