Hah not everyone who disagrees with the use of a word is being politically correct. That would be if I said you can't make jokes about rape or something.
No one had to contort the meaning of that into being a swear word with a jumbled reddit post. Just happened naturally.
No that's not correct. I also wasn't talking just about law; the definition of rape has always been sexual, legally and colloquially.
The word rape is defined as a sexual act, ie forced sex, usually penetrative. No sexual act, no rape. See also 'divorce rape'. It isn't rape.
So you're accusing the girl of bringing false charges with no reason to think they're false then. Unless there's some extra info here
Look up abundance in the dictionary. What you've listed is a nice state to be in, but it isn't abundance. Self-sufficiency or stability might be more applicable to the state you describe.