> In contrast imagine a world where each and every person got to decide a path or meaning for themselves, even what fictions to participate in, lets call this "personal truth". It's a truth that best fits their feelings, sexual attractions or human nature. Not what best fits society.

I work out very hard...

Three days a week...

You're pathetic.

> N.B. as someone who suffered with depression, training was one of my anchors to keep me on the straight and narrow. If i didn’t train i would be in a very different place than I am today.

I actually agree witih most of not all of the quotes above. I trained like a maniac through my 20's, it was how I dealt with anxiety and depression. And thank fuck too, the alternatives are alcohol, drugs and/or suicide as happened to a schoolmate of mine last week. However, it didn't magically confer upon me frame or a mission.

The only part of this that actually made me think was

> Sometimes we miss the forest (what is our actual goal with women) for the trees (how do we get this specific girl’s clothes off)

Now that would be a useful post especially for older (>30 years) guys on here.

the rest is just mental masturbation.

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Great response. OP had multiple chances to dick her down and didn't take them, so she told him via the "I'm back with my ex" shit test to raise his game.