2y ago Ask TRP
Sexual escalation practical tips? Reading material? Helps me to have something very specific as a starting point.
3-4 years ago I was sarging girls hard (had more time, was a way more junior engineer) I opened and closed 3 girls in the same DAY. I feel so out of it and low on self confidence that I have failed to sexually escalate dates now.
Out of a 3 year relationship where I really dropped the ball. Feeling happy being single again, really on track with career, making good progress in physical fitness, getting matches, setting up dates, really failing to escalate sexually. In my head, not very confident,
2y ago The Hub
@Zavss yes after 300+ matches on hinge I've met with 3 slept with 2, don't really want to see any of them again. That's not so great and I've wasted so much time on the stupid app.
200k from being in tech, making good $ stock appreciation putting away 90% of my income into investments. my base salary is about 135k
2y ago The Hub
Need help to capitalize my lifestyle for my game. I feel like my lifestyle is a basic white girls wet dream.
The 6 6s: I'm 27, 6 months out of a relationship, 6'3 tall, 6"+ in the pants, 6 figure income (200k), 600hp car, and on the way back to 6 pack abs (covid ballooned me up a bit) The foundations are there. I'm a few months away from getting back to the physical shape I used to be in, will get some professional photography to really boost that dating app appeal when I'm back to super hot shirtless level.
I travel full time. M-F I'm at a customer and weekends I get to fly "home" (my parents house as a mailing address in a state with no income tax) or wherever else I please provided its within reasonable $ for tickets. My hotel, flights, food, mileage, parking its all expensed to the company. I live at the nearest Marriott to anything I need to be at, have millions of points and miles with Marriott and Delta. I can go anywhere for free and take a companion with me for free. I fly first class everywhere I go, stay in the top rooms of every hotel, game the rental counter clerks and roll around in their BMWs.
Friends have recommended to get into instagram/snapchat etc to DHV that lifestyle more publicly. I realized dating apps like Hinge seem to integrate instagram so this should provide good returns in the future. My dating app funnel goes something like this: Me: "If time and money where no factor and you could go anywhere, where would you visit?" Them: 90% basic bitch responses, bora bora, "somewhere in europe" (lol) Me: "Oh I've actually been/want to go there too, actually I travel full time" Them: "Woah that's so cool how do you do that?" Me: "I manage multiple teams across the nation, I'm staying in (current city) for a while" continue banter about I stay downtown, I'd like to take you out to such place I found that's really nice (note that my company pays for the majority of the bill, sometimes I'll expense 30% less than the bill if its a high $) I'm not trying to be a cash cow even though it's not my $ but I have very little time after work and am hungry anyways after I get out of the gym and prefer to combine that time with the date.
This seems to result in some women that are REALLY REALLY INTERESTED and some that just go radio silent. I'd like to meet some girls that are good enough company to go on a weekend trip with (I like fucking in the wilderness). I could use some help figuring out how to turn a larger % of those matches into the ones that are like "Wow you seem really interesting and cute, here's my number" without having me even asked for it yet.
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