I'm all for healthy masturbation, as he outlines in the book, since it's better than the porn-addicted type. However, I think we should call a spade a spade: masturbation is the result of failing to attract women into your life.
Good points, I think you're right. I also know I've got way better game (and success) with less attractive women and married women. The attractive ones intimidate me because of how I respond to them. I see myself pedesalizing them and wanting to please them because of fear of them walking away. Pathetic, I know, but my history is like that. Working on the IDGAF without feeling sorry for them...[More]
I'm 46 but haven't figured out the plate spinning yet. Only been dating for 20 months or so (got divorced). Seems like all the women I get with want more than casual, so leave when they don't get what they want.