mr_Tobbor
3y ago The Hub
@mr_Tobbor In this day and age, it's probably better to hide anger. There are just way to many instances where pro-feminine power structures can swoop in and fuck up your day. I'll say that it is better to "remove" yourself from situations where you have a control over it - read not potential car crashes you gotta stick your ground in those cases. This implies that you have to know your own limits, by which I mean the boiling point where you can no longer ignore it.
Note: assuming you're good at steering social conversations, you should never really be within that boiling point reach unless she absolutely wants to go there.
You should also enforce boundaries. Women, unless crazy, are like politicians. They do not take the entire arm and leg in one go, they nibble at it millimeter by millimeter, calculating (instinctively) if they can push further. At a certain point, if the game is worth it by your own admission, you sometimes need to pick a hill to stand on so that she pulls back and "waits it out" or comes up with other creative ways to nibble at you. The basic principle of a relationship is a struggle for control.
All "good" relationships start with man holding the most cards in that game, a woman wants to get those cards over time, and if you do not know how this shit is done, she will. If you do, she won't, and will thus remain "happy"/content.
The goal if to see this bullshit, and to see this bullshit on a grand scale. Be with enough women and you'll see it, trust me on that one. Assuming of course you bothered paying attention in class.
Don't sell "anger" short however. Women respond very well to fear and implied notion that something which induces fear. Yes, they dislike it on emotional "software" level, but they seem to respond to it quite well on "hardware" notion. For instance, in general women get wet when they get raped. They get docile around men who can without consequences fuck up their shit (drug dealers, men of crime life etc). This is also due to the fact that people in crime deal with individuals differently, in ways where law can't protect women well.
So there's also something "good"/useful in anger - which inspires fear in women. I'm 6'2 and quite fit, and I do notice how when my expression turns stern, their reactions and their looks in the eyes. Try it yourself if you have a frame that can be considered big (big = dangerous).
Good manipulators are good at projecting that fear onto others. The classical story of a battered housewive that gets fucked up by her abusive husband is a case where one is a manipulator while the other is the victim, or a created victim - she was normal but overtime got turned into a victim.
Note: DO.NOT.FUCKING.DO.IT if you're an autistic idiot who does not understand subtext, body language and all the "etiquette". I also do not think that it'll work for 5'5 manlet broskies unless they're jacked like a fucking dwarf or something.
Read More@TakeHerToAGayBar I think that when a woman knows you and your character (that you are a safe person, not violent) she would accept your anger. She wont't fell threatened. So when you become angry with her, show it. It isn't bad. A more difficult situation is when your woman is near you and you become angry and have an argument with another woman, when you are in a social situation. I think again that showing your anger is better than hide (can you?). The whole thing is if this add or not in you SMV.
3y ago The Hub
@mr_Tobbor What do you think yourself?
I can speak and write novels about what a man can do, but I'm not you. At the very least before I commit to providing value; tell me your own thoughts and ideas, otherwise there will be little growth opportunity.
@TakeHerToAGayBar Thank you man. I just say that when a man is angry with a woman or his woman what is a manly way to behave.
3y ago The Hub
@mr_Tobbor Look, if it is a genuine grievance, such as her being a cunt and almost crashing into you, and it's totally her fault; then let her hear it. I mean, road is a dangerous place. Sometimes all it takes is one little misstep and dozens of people could be put into unnecessary danger.
Now, to tackle a far more important problem in your framework; you giving more shit about her being afraid. I mean, dude, you just got into - what I am assuming - a potential accident that ended up being "too close for comfort", and all you give a shit about is "Does she feel threatened?"
I mean, imagine if she had a gun on her, and wanted to check it out, and by accident she pulled the trigger which resulted in you almost being shot. Would you still care if she felt threatened for your rightful feeling of anger at her stupidity?
Your problem is that you still unconsciously place others before yourself. It's not "does she feel bad?", it's "dumb bitch needs to learn how to drive". You won't find happiness in this life if you do not start placing yourself before others.
Read MoreWhen clicking the profile of a user and click his posts link I see all the posts of every user.
I have read for years nearly every pua's book. And long time ago TRP side bar, manuall and every post. But still have questions that pop up in mind and compulsively looking for an answer. Today I got angry with another driver, I saw she is a woman and I angrilly sound at her "what are you doing. Are you serious etc". QUESTION: I know 2 emotions are permitted to men. Apathy and angry. With your or other woman: What can / have to do? May be she feels threatend.
@assassin where can I find these? At TRP ans askTRP? Public square is for you and your friends. (Elite?)
Guys write about men, masculinity, get laid, women phsychology don't just asnwer each others comments. It is frustrating. I am reading for one hour and nothing usefull I have seen