1y ago The Hub
have fwb who lives quite far
she's quite cool, we're actually friends. she texts me almost every day, I'm fine with that. I actually enjoy talking to her
the other day she was on a night out, texted me "hello daddy" out of nowhere
I told her to send me racy pics, she does
we sext a bit, then convo switches to other things
then she comes back to "I'm so horny"
I tell her to rub one out in the toilet and send me a video
couple hours later she says "wait a sec"
I says "ok"
she says "damn I'm going home and I couldn't get a good video"
I say "do one from home"
she says "ok but you may be asleep by the time I get there" and then turns off her phone data or something bc my reply stays on delivered for about 12 hours
I'm like whatever
I know the horniness is bc she's ovulating so she might as well be fucking someone who lives closer. I legit don't care
next day, she texts me "I was too tired when I got home :("
I just say "tease"
few hours later she sents me a picture of something unrelated
I reply normally next morning
she replies terse hours later
Her little tease thing legit turned me off but it's no big deal honestly. Would be a dumb reason for starting a "who gives less of a fuck" game, which seems to be how she's taking it.
Should I just resume contact normally?
Read More1y ago TheRedPill
@jprdl I was fine with a relationship tho, and I made that clear enough when at one point she was dropping hints on me talking about breaking up with her ldr bf. She ended up breaking up with the guy, then she started acting weird and the shit that I mentioned on the main post happened.
1y ago TheRedPill
@slutmagazine she said they had agreed to open the LDR while they were apart (they were literally continents away) but fuck do I know
1y ago TheRedPill
@slutmagazine I did tell her I would be fine with a relationship but she kept dancing around the subject. One time she kept telling me about how doomed her LDR with some other guy was (after I had already told her that her LDR issues were none of my business) I mentioned it and she was like "I'm not gonna break up with my boyfriend". I was like alright. Fucked her and acted like nothing happened.
One week later, she breaks up with her boyfriend. I didn't bring up the talk bc I don't wanna put pressure on her. She starts acting weird, then pulls that breakup shit.
fwb broke up with me because
1) "I don't know much about you, you barely talk about yourself so I feel no emotional intimacy"
2) one time she tried to make me jealous and I just answered that I'd feel dumb taking her out to places if she happened to be fucking someone else. keep in mind this girl cheated on her ldr bf with me
3) she kept trying to make me jealous and mad, flaked on a bootycall without saying sorry, and I told her that it looked like she was being childish and playing games for attention
4) one time she was being annoying and bratty on purpose, trying to boss me around, and I just went about my business and ignored her for 30 minutes until she went back to being nice
Those were the reasons she gave
Is she retarded
Retarded? /shrug/ It's possible, but it's more likely that she's just psychotic and exhibiting some degree of narcissism. Regardless, it's pretty obvious she's no longer interested in you, which is just as well as you could do better with some time and self investment.
The bigger problem right now is that you've been pining over this girl for a month now and you've not allowed yourself to let go. It's unhealthy for a man to develop an attachment to one person, let alone a psychotic.
cc: @Antelope
Read More1y ago TheRedPill
fwb broke up with me because
1) "I don't know much about you, you barely talk about yourself so I feel no emotional intimacy"
2) one time she tried to make me jealous and I just answered that I'd feel dumb taking her out to places if she happened to be fucking someone else. keep in mind this girl cheated on her ldr bf with me
3) she kept trying to make me jealous and mad, flaked on a bootycall without saying sorry, and I told her that it looked like she was being childish and playing games for attention
4) one time she was being annoying and bratty on purpose, trying to boss me around, and I just went about my business and ignored her for 30 minutes until she went back to being nice
Those were the reasons she gave
Is she retarded
1y ago The Hub
fwb broke up with me because
1) "I don't know much about you, you barely talk about yourself so I feel no emotional intimacy"
2) one time she tried to make me jealous and I just answered that I'd feel dumb taking her out to places if she happened to be fucking someone else. keep in mind this girl cheated on her ldr bf with me
3) she kept trying to make me jealous and mad, flaked on a bootycall without saying sorry, and I told her that it looked like she was being childish and playing games for attention
4) one time she was being annoying and bratty on purpose, trying to boss me around, and I just went about my business and ignored her for 30 minutes until she went back to being nice
Those were the reasons she gave
Is she retarded
2y ago The Hub
@Hermes-Trismegistus I didn't act mad or anything. I just talked to her calmly about how things looked from my perspective while caressing her cheek, like you would do with a child.
She had also been acting too bratty for the days before, aside from trying to make me jealous. So at first I just ignored it, but when it got to a point when she was actively disrespecting my time and not saying sorry for it it just looked like something I shouldn't let slide. My theory is she was insecure and anxious as fuck and self sabotaging the whole thing but fuck do I know.
What would have you done?
idk man. Everytime she shit tests, when I ignore it she just keeps going until I take some corrective action like yanking her hair or twisting her ear.
What's done is done. Don't look back with any regrets, but look ahead with a new found sense of freedom. Learn from the past as you move forward relieved that she's no longer your concern. Drop her from your online contacts, place her number on block, and just let her...
2y ago The Hub
@carnold03 idk man. Everytime she shit tests, when I ignore it she just keeps going until I take some corrective action like yanking her hair or twisting her ear.