I read about an auto wreck. I guess you never ride in cars either.
They are his kids, he raised them.
Exercise. Friends. Good hobbies. Visit a museum. Go skydiving. I try to stay busy. Sitting around thinking is not good.
Be a good listener. While they talk you are learning about them. Knowledge will help you bed a gal.
You have to choose women who are sexually attractive to you. Whether someone else thinks they are a 5 or a 10 doesn't matter.
These women are looking for that perfect partner. Nothing wrong with changing partners during the search.