Choose the college wisely. STEM.
There is always someone better.
A new fresh alpha is always better than the old known one.
Study, dear Anglo-Saxon friends:
Nine month for rape? Rape is a serious crime, punished by death by traditional societies. But today, words have no meaning at all.
You can not easily walk away when children are involved.
You need alpha to attract a woman and a beta to maintain a relationship. Just not to be consumed by betaness.