2y ago The Hub
@Notre_dame yeah I'm probably gonna have to shut her down, but how do I go about it should I be harsh or non chalant or just dismissive...?
2y ago The Hub
@Notre_dame And what should I do if she tries to patch things up or even hit on me (I know it's unlikely but I feel like if you neg a girl and then next her she might be intrigued especially one like her who doesn't have a big social network)
2y ago The Hub
@Notre_dame yeah that makes sense, she seems more scared of me (since I have a bigger network) than angry at me but she honestly thinks I'm way more of a player than I am because of how hard the neg was I feel like if she finds that out she'll be pissed off.
2y ago The Hub
@Notre_dame I kind of got that, and her current social circle is basically me and one other guy so I don't think she can hurt me unless she start building her network
2y ago The Hub
@Notre_dame we are classmates and I have talked to her one separate day before and on that day we were talking for a while before the negg but we went to class and as we were walking out we made like 30seconds of small talk before I Negged her.
2y ago The Hub
@Notre_dame I don't remember the specifics but i basically said her hair looked bad and she said that "I don't know her like that." "That she doesn't like to be spoken to that way." And basically hinted at me chasing her like "I 've never spoken to you, you came up to me." In my language it sounds harsher cuz it hints at desperation and then she hinted at wanting to be left alone.
2y ago The Hub
I Negged a girl hard (still learning) and it backfired at first I thought she was just giving me shit because she flipped out instantly so I was like "really? You're that sensitive?" But it was apparent she wanted me to leave her alone, no big deal I just nexted her immediately, but she took it to heart and would stay behind or change direction so we wouldn't meet I guess she either thinks I'm gonna be aggressive towards her or try to fix things (fuck no on both counts) either way I already nexted her but I was wondering if I should ignore her completely (as if I'm mad at her) or is it ok if we're forced to interact with each other that I act as if nothing happened (we're from the same class) and in case she tries to talk to me, how should I handle it? Should I be distant or even act as if I'm mad? Because even if she wants it her getting offended screwed up the dynamic since she said things like "If that's how you talk to girls then go talk to them that way." "I was minding my own business you're the one who came chatting me up." So we can't really keep talking since it would be awkward for me to tease her I guess what I'm asking is if she came back how should I dismiss her? Since I feel like I shouldn't act like what happened was a big deal and at the same time I should convey to her that I don't care about her and have moved on to the next thing.
Read More3y ago The Hub
@Typo-MAGAshiv maybe, but i also live in a very small town with a very limited pool of potential lovers, hence my over-investment.
3y ago The Hub
@firmware_pimp I live in a small town with a uhhm lack of talent, there are like 5 hot girls here, hence my overinvestment in one girl.