Breaking virginity is a yawn in Asia.
Or when she needs a ride.
If the girl is paying your apartment and buying you groceries then it's ok to be monogamous.
Never ask for consent.
Not everybody in the world likes the same thing.
She sounds cool. Just go get the bj outside, what's the fucking big deal?
And guys, she came hard on the idea of hubby going out for a bj.
That's not dread, the wife is just looking to spice it up.
Sounds manageable to me.