You should find three hobbies:
One to make you money.
One to keep you healthy.
One to be creative.
Amen. "Always be the one having fun" should be the motto for everything you do in life, not just clubbing.
Not to be a dick here, but if you're working two jobs why are you getting a $1000 iPhone? Makes sense to stick to a $300 phone until you're in a better financial position?
Tell us about toastmasters. How does it work? You just show up and talk?
Lol, please share