A general life advice "look for challenges and goals" without them your discipline goes limp and your potential stops meaning anything.
In the great majority of contries the contract would be completely null due to a failure in a consent (basic contractual theory) but seriusly dude "don´t sign nothing you haven´t read" is a very basic thing you must always have in mind.
Acting like a victim is an easy way to draw attention and support so many people do that and it is kinda sad becuase that disminisses true victims.
Honor doesnt mean being stupid you only kept your word as long as others do the same.
Just an small advice don´t marry her becuase she considers you a second option when you are a succesful guy and can surely find another girl.Don´t let her return as nothing more than a fuckbuddy.