1y ago The Beer Hall
@Typo-MAGAshiv I do know her quite a bit. We talked a lot through those 2 months. But I agree, my hormones are the reason, not my logical thinking. However, I forgot to write another thing. It’s weird that I study in the same Uni as her and I used to see her all the time there whilst we were talking. Now I NEVER see her at Uni. What’s up with women? If she didn’t like me, I don’t think she’d be avoiding me on purpose. She just wouldn’t care. Idk. Just my crazy bitch ass brain overthinking shit that I should forget.
1y ago The Beer Hall
I’ve got a big case of Oneitis. Was talking and hanging out with this girl for 2 months. She liked me more than I liked her in the beginning, for sure. Game was 100% on point, no mistakes, first time I’ve ever managed to do that probably. However, she then began to be cold towards me. In the beginning, I played it off really well, didn’t care and all that. However, after she flaked on a date, I showed some weakness/neediness. Decided to cut her off because I respect myself too much to give attention to a girl that flaked on me. I stopped talking to her for 1 month. I have to be honest, in this one month, I missed her so much. I realised how much I really liked this girl. Before, I not only didn’t like her SO MUCH (I did like her though, don’t get me wrong), but now I’ve fallen in love with her. Therefore, 1 month later I sent her a message to hang out sometime, and she was up to it. She even initiated conversation with me (gave some excuse that she needed help with with something). Told her I was going to a club near her house (that lots of my friends were going) and she only replied hours later with “kkkkkkkkkkkk” (laughter in Portuguese). Please help me, I’ve become deluded. Does she not find me attractive anymore? Is there a possibility she is playing hard to get? No way I believe. She doesn’t even try to continue conversation anymore. Please help me, how should I get rid of this oneitis? I hooked up with 2 girls at the club last night, but my mind is still thinking of her. I just want to cry, honestly. Fuck. Still a bit drunk from last night.
Read MoreIf I followed the Red pill’s advice (sidebar) perfectly for a few months, hit it off great with a girl, but then fuck up for a week by being needy, is it over? I’ve decided to not text here anymore, after she flaked on a date. Btw, before I had abundance mentality, but, for one week, I lost it. I’ve made a mistake, but at least I’m seeing it and trying to fix it.
It's not red pill advice, it's just the reality of romantic relationships with females. In the scenario you present, the girl doesn't care what you think anymore and that's assuming she ever did at all. In this age of email, instant messaging, and mobile phones, when a female flakes on a date without reaching out to reschedule, that's the clearest most obvious way she can nicely and dismissively tell a guy, "I'm not interested in you." There is literally nothing a guy in such a situation can do to renew that specific females interest in them, and no self respecting man would, or should, even try. Without her interest in you the relationship is dead.
The only thing a man can do is to accept that she's done with them, learn from that failure, and focus on developing themselves into a man such that future women they meet will be attracted to them with greater enthusiasm.
To that end, consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
Read More2y ago The Hub
If I followed the Red pill’s advice (sidebar) perfectly for a few months, hit it off great with a girl, but then fuck up for a week by being needy, is it over? I’ve decided to not text here anymore, after she flaked on a date. Btw, before I had abundance mentality, but, for one week, I lost it. I’ve made a mistake, but at least I’m seeing it and trying to fix it.
2y ago The Beer Hall
If I followed the Red pill’s advice (sidebar) perfectly for a few months, hit it off great with a girl, but then fuck up for a week by being needy, is it over? I’ve decided to not text here anymore, after she flaked on a date. Btw, before I had abundance mentality, but, for one week, I lost it. I’ve made a mistake, but at least I’m seeing it and trying to fix it.