1y ago TheRedPill
@Vermillion-Rx > If you are having solid frame and good text game, and not being eager yourself. A lot of girls will double text you, thus easily making a 2/3 ratio. What does "solid frame", "good text" game and "not being eager yourself" even mean? How do you quantify this? Can you show me examples of "solid frame", "good text" game and "not being eager". I mean actual examples, preferably a lot of them. Because all of this seems incredibly vague, maybe I'm just slow and can't comprehend it. In my experience only 2/3 things I had was in relationships and even then, very subtle. Never once with girls I actually wanted to date.
You have to remember girls double text a lot, especially if they don't hear back from a guy they like. Not in my experience. And I've dated like 100 girls, fucked 10 in my experience and texted with more than 100 easy. I also disregarded a lot of girls i didn't find attractive, but also THEY didn't text me.
I only got eager texts after the ones I had fucked. I mean like more initiation and interest. I'm not sure what I am doing wrong, therefore specific advice could help.
Read MoreNot hard to get such a ratio, it is easily enforceable. Not in my experience (apart from LTRs).
1y ago TheRedPill
Oh, by the way, I AGREE with the 2/3 rule with your SO or wife. My current gf is ATTACHED and I can enforce that rule EASILY, but with new girls and girls I haven't slept with yet? No fucking way. It's like pulling teeth getting them on dates and getting them to bed.
1y ago TheRedPill
@Typo-MAGAshiv "You should average about 2 texts for every 3 of hers. " This is an unenforceable rule, since if I did this, I would be an incel. No girl texts me 3 texts for every 2 hers. If I followed this rule, I wouldn't be getting laid PERIOD. And as posted in another thread, I have maxxed out quite a bit, so it's not like there is much else left to do. I never write a novel, my texts are short usually.
1y ago TheRedPill
How often to text girls you meet from cold approach and tinder?
And please don't suggest "text only for logistics". That fails on like 19 girls from 20.
And I have at least 3 girls explicitly complain that they don't hear from me enough.
What other recommendations are there for texting?
What are your strategies? What is working for you?
Where can I find best information on texting for girls you've been on dates with or met from cold approach or are dating but not fucking yet.
1y ago TheRedPill
Thanks, I will message him. My face is not ugly and when I'm lower bodyfat, it looks quite good. one chick even told me I should be CK model, but she was very drunk, so I take it with grain of salt. Anyway, it shouldn't be holding me back as I see guys with way more faces dating very cute girls, so there MUST be something with communication, texting or body language. I'm not sure what exactly. AMS recommends not to text for a week. I don't do that. I will usually text the girl after a few days after our date. Maybe they take me as disinterested? A girl I'm seeing now said she doesn't feel like I really appreciate her, but I'm just not into her. I'm seeing her, because I don't want to be sexless. It's getting other cuter girls that's the problem.
@Jocbro hey there, @carnold03 said you could help me out on my dating problems. Thread is here: www.trp.red/feed/status/145051
1y ago TheRedPill
I observed the same behavior with chicks from tinder and from IRL. They will give me phone maybe one in 15 will actually go on a date with me. Then one in 10 dates will fuck me. It's incredibly tiresome. They generally lose interest after one or more dates with me. If I fuck them, then they have huge interest in me. I don't message a lot, I message very rarely so I don't seem too interested. I have no idea what to do really. If someone would tell me how to fix this shit, I'd be so grateful.
My dates DO show me affection, but not often. Even those that DO show me affection like hugging me, taking initiative and kissing me will later ghost me. It's incredibly rare though. Pic attached is my body picture. I think it's good enough body for most women, so there must be something else at fault here.
The photos aren't necessary. The problem doesn't seem to be your physique, and I doubt you're got a face that's hit every single branch of the ugly tree. It reads to me like you're generally experiencing the usual difficulties most guys go through with females, but there's something about you turning them off.
That you're getting one in ten to show up is proof you're doing better than the average. I'm surprised you only seem to be getting a majority of one and two hit encounters though. I'd have figured you'd have a good few chicks who would keep your contact information around, if only to keep you as a stallion they stable and take out to occasionally ride. I mean, it's entirely possible that you come off as so high value that these chicks lose confidence in their ability to keep you and refuse to at least try.
@Jocbro's in a similar situation, so he might be better able to offer some insight to your situation, given your current situations similarities to his in the past. I hope he doesn't mind my cc:ing him here on that point. Other then that, best of luck to you man. Sorry I couldn't offer better assistance.
Read More1y ago TheRedPill
@Pfizer I'm not English. Recording dates could be creepy af. Maybe vocal at best. I would have to have a person with me to record and the girl would notice this person.
1y ago TheRedPill
@carnold03 I observed the same behavior with chicks from tinder and from IRL. They will give me phone maybe one in 15 will actually go on a date with me. Then one in 10 dates will fuck me. It's incredibly tiresome. They generally lose interest after one or more dates with me. If I fuck them, then they have huge interest in me. I don't message a lot, I message very rarely so I don't seem too interested. I have no idea what to do really. If someone would tell me how to fix this shit, I'd be so grateful.
My dates DO show me affection, but not often. Even those that DO show me affection like hugging me, taking initiative and kissing me will later ghost me. It's incredibly rare though. Pic attached is my body picture. I think it's good enough body for most women, so there must be something else at fault here.
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