Exactly man!!!

True you make very valid points. It's in our instinct as males to mate-guard and if a man steals your girl you'll feel embarrassed but that is life, just learn and move on. In ancient times, mateguarding was the norm and men would fight to the death over females. You could literally kill another man if he fucked your woman or he could kill you.

I don't think there's anything more humiliating than trying to confront the guy who your gf cheated on you with.

The amount of fights I've witnessed in college just because a guys ego was hurt because his girl was a whore is amusing.

I've actually encountered quite a few dangerous men and most of the time i wouldn't touch their wives/ gf or even plates unless he doesn't give a shit.

Ok i get you now.

Well in that case i still pressure flip or handle the test accordingly. I'll say "it will be our little secret" then either continue fucking her secretly or block her.

“If you not my nigga , then your girl is single to me”

Precisely this. If you not my friend or an acquaintance with whom i'm on good terms with then i owe you no loyalty. Why do some even on this sub fail to see this.. Most men wouldn't think about you and would fuck your girl in a heartbeat...so why should you play fair.