Well, apparently I am a different kind of a person. I first create value, then I follow up with behavior.
I'm SHOCKED if it's different for others.
And change of behavior comes from the change of values, which are generated internally. Thanks for trying, though.
OP says you are what you wear, I'd say there are at least 10 more things that actually make you.
Muscles and apparel are two different things. One requires dedication and character, the other requires fucking nothing (some money). Everyone can buy clothes. Swallow that lol