I've been helping a girl shed a few pounds and even though I know what will happen when she does, I insist on it. I've been admitting to myself that I like to do it for myself, rather than for her.
It's really fucking good, I had some doubts because it's been written and published during the current political climate, but Greene is still the same.
Mindset my friend! Work hard and the right frame of mind will become your standard one.