Eloquently said. And yet somehow the reddit admins will lose this battle either way. They either fashion together a straw man argument and get publicly exposed or relent with their tails between their legs and admit defeat.
My roommate told me that his dads best advice to him was “Once a yes, always a yes.” That means if a girl at any point has liked you in your life, assume that attraction is still there and act on it.
It's not about looks. A girl could be a complete bitch or can't develop enough interests or passions to hold a conversation.
There is no such thing as a 10. A 10 has a perfect personality/looks. And I assure you no 19 year old has the potential to develop both.