2y ago The Hub
@Zavss I think you are right about making money your purpose. To me it's just a means to the end I want. I know the kind of life I want to build so I will do that.
I think the biggest takeaway is that no woman will change my life, every woman meet has the opportunity to change her life and lifestyle.
2y ago The Hub
I've lived a life that was bad with women. I don't agree with a lot of the group consensus, but I am proof that the majority of the ideas discussed here are valid and true.
I'm 31, 6'3 250 (not very fat but not in shape or fit). My dick is a little below average at 5 inches on a good day lmao. I am a veteran, shaved bald, and have cool sleeve tattoos. I work as an IT consultant and earn over 100k, projecting to make 200k by end of year at a new job overseas in Europe. I am from the united states.
I'd say I'm a solid 7.
Growing up I was very awkward and learned I was in an abusive home with shit parents after years of therapy. Women didn't like me because I didn't like myself. I look about the same as I did in high school. Body wise. Less hair more tattoos and money. But the amount of women who are interested in me is vastly different. I was the wierd one in high school. I'm still wierd, but it turns out I'm also smart as fuck. The only thing that has changed is the amount of visable success, and the amount I loved myself. Also coincidentally as I've cut out the negative people in my life the amount of success skyrocketed.
I have a roommate who is 31, 8/10 latina. Very beautiful. We were very into each other and she wouldn't let me kiss her or touch her ass. I'm not a plate spinning guy. Sex just isn't that important to me. I want to be in a relationship and have a family.
I asked her to be my gf and she said no. At the same time another girl 8/10 was dming me on IG. We start flirting and she wants to become my gf. She's also 31 needs to have a family as she is near the wall. She flys to me and we fuck and hang out and she tells me she's not attracted to me.
I told my roommate that I cannot continue to hold hands and cuddle because the other girl wants to be exclusive. She understood, and when IG Girl leaves, my roommate tells me she misses my hugs and kisses. I tell her she's in luck and ig girl didn't want me.
She invites me to go out to eat and we come back and it's all access. She ends up sucking my dick the day after her competition leaves.
She told me she was jealous and she didn't eat for the days ig girl was in town. She had heard us fucking and she told me she was very jealous of her.
This is what I've learned.
With success, there will be a line of women waiting to replace the girl you currently have.
Women don't realize this. They're literally jumping up and down behind them waiting to suck some dick for an opportunity for you to change their life.
Women are looking for a man that changes their life.
Men are looking to add women into his life.
I've always gotten hotter girls, in my opinion I'm in no league with.
I think money and success will get you to the game, however personality and looks will win you the game (game=ltr)
We live in a society that values men and success the same way that society views women and looks.
There's instincts embedded into our DNA that motivates our actions and choices.
For men its the desire to be the number one man. Whether its the top of the hierarchy for the band nerds (I played alto sax). Or it could be financially earning 6 fixure incomes and a comfortable lifestyle.
For women it's the desire to have the number one man, usually by being the most beautiful.
I listen to Patrice o neal a lot. I think he hits it dead on.
If you are a king and you marry any bitch. She can be face down in the gutter with one leg and a sideways coochie. She is now the queen. She is the number 1 bitch in all the land. Now if you the queen and you marry anyone they are now above you and is now the number one man.
Men can make women be the number 1 bitch in the land. Women can make the man the number 1 person in the land.
I say that to say this.
It's a man's job to promote women to their highest self, the number one bitch. It's a woman's job to elevate her man to his highest self. His highest self is to be the number one mother fucker on earth.
I'm just trying to understand women. I feel like I have always been the same personality wise and looks wise. I wondered why growing up I'm not as successful as my better looking friends. It was just class. They're higher on the social ladder in HS. The only thing that changed was that my visable success changed. Houses, money, lifestyle. Ive done it for myself, but a big part of my motivation is to find a nice girl and have a family. That's what attracts women. Then its looks and personality.
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