Transitioning from friends to fuck buddies?
So there’s this chick I know from highschool, we’re both currently in college. We used to be friends, then she tried to get with me and I rejected her so we stopped talking after that.
Fast forward 3 years and I realize she’s had a major glow up and hit her up again. So we’ve been texting every so often. She told me she wants to be celibate for the summer I said “hope I can change your mind” and she just replied “stay hopeful”, then a couple days later she asked me to hang out once we’re both back home for the summer.
Do I ask her if she’s dtf now, or wait and make a move in person? Feel like odds are better in person but I don’t wanna waste my time and keep up a conversation till we hang for it all to have been pointless.
Also, I know nothing about TRP, so let me know if this was the wrong place to post. Thanks
Welcome to TRP. You posted to the right place.
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Out of curiosity, what's changed about this girl you rejected in high school that has made you will to reconsider her now several years later? Is it because she's changed for the better, or because your love life is currently idle?
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Transitioning from friends to fuck buddies?
So there’s this chick I know from highschool, we’re both currently in college. We used to be friends, then she tried to get with me and I rejected her so we stopped talking after that.
Fast forward 3 years and I realize she’s had a major glow up and hit her up again. So we’ve been texting every so often. She told me she wants to be celibate for the summer I said “hope I can change your mind” and she just replied “stay hopeful”, then a couple days later she asked me to hang out once we’re both back home for the summer.
Do I ask her if she’s dtf now, or wait and make a move in person? Feel like odds are better in person but I don’t wanna waste my time and keep up a conversation till we hang for it all to have been pointless.
Also, I know nothing about TRP, so let me know if this was the wrong place to post. Thanks
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