It’s really a chicken-or-egg scenario
By encouraging them to be vulnerable, and then empathize with them.
Were you neglected or bullied as a child?
Why are you miserable without others validation instead of feeling complete regardless of what people say or think?
Vulnerability displays differently depending on the value of the person displaying it.
I was in your situation a few years ago..
I think he’s implying that OP hooked up with two chix who coincidentally have the same cycle, thus they come and go at the same intervals
Big if true