Is there something I can do about women being a huge distraction for me? I am big on self improvment and I want to better myself, but I find doing things I wouldnt normaly do (excessive drinking, going out etc.) I workout and make music but when I have a lot of free time on weekends I tend to go out and drink myself to blackout all for a potential one night stand because drinking helps me with confidence. Is there something you guys suggest that would help me manage this drive?
Why are you drinking to the point of blacking out? Do you drink to that degree because you're uncomfortable around women, out of habit, both, or something else? It reads like you're pretty focused if you're getting black out drunk despite the distraction women create for you.
Is there something I can do about women being a huge distraction for me? I am big on self improvment and I want to better myself, but I find doing things I wouldnt normaly do (excessive drinking, going out etc.) I workout and make music but when I have a lot of free time on weekends I tend to go out and drink myself to blackout all for a potential one night stand because drinking helps me with confidence. Is there something you guys suggest that would help me manage this drive?