1y ago WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
New Age feminism
She loves being told I own her body. Own her. She loves me dominating her. She gets incredibly turned on by it.
The second one is female nature. It's in female nature to say things like "i don't like being dominated" b/c that's her telling HERSELF (less to you) that she's not an easy slut. She's trying avoid being negatively judged.
What feminism is doing is trying to make women into not-sluts by making being a slut publicly acceptable. But, if you really thing about it, making being a slut publicly acceptable is actually also avoiding of being negatively judged.
This is why women support feminism. This isn't a full explanation, its a partial one, explaining one angle of the popularity.
1y ago WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
New Age feminism has been on my mind a whole lot and how really its social hamstering.
My gf at the moment is a prime example.
There was initially shit tests at points. Since I've got my M. A. P in place, there hasn't been any shit tests specifically relating to sex.
On the contrary, she seeks out to be dominated by me. She loves struggling when I pin her down. She is naturally submissive. Yet the disconnect between what she says and what she likes is staggering.
She loves being told I own her body. Own her. She loves me dominating her. She gets incredibly turned on by it.
On reflection, my views have been blown wide open. No longer do I look at words but actions. Frame is the key.
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I'm being really careful not to get too comfortable with the change. She loves me now.
It's really hot.
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It's just early stages yet.
My main focus at the moment has been inner game, social skills, assertiveness and I've planned a new wardrobe.
I'm also going to get my teeth whitened and I'm looking at contact lenses. Hitting the gym three times a week. Ice cream fitness routine.
The inner game changes have been increasing my natural playfulness. Not viewing sexualized chat as off limits when flirting or bantering with people. Within reason.
Overall, I've passed more fitness tests and comfort tests. Before when my gf went into fitness tests, I would DEER.
Now I A&A, sexualise ("Be quiet and come here. Give me a kiss."), Amused frame. One example was my gf going on about "Anal... Sounds so romantic." so I reframed "I'll light some candles, sprinkle Rose petals on the bed, play opera while I slide my dick romantically into your pussy drenched ass"
Instantly she was all "Fuck" and got wet.
She calls me daddy often now too.
Ill stay the course
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It's been a while.
I've been consuming recommended reading.
I read MMSM.
I told her to tell me what colour panties she was wearing. She sent me a picture.
I told her what I was going to do "We won't make it past the hallway. I'm going to push you against the wall and inspect your panties. Bend you over and eat your asshole."
We had a night together and that happened. We had sex for two hours straight. I came in her asshole. She sucked my fingers while I did. She told me I owned her pussy and ass. Her mouth. I fucked her hard. She gave me the best blowjob ever. She put my dick and balls in her mouth multiple times unprompted. I performed oral on her. Licked her belly button. Bit her nipples. Made her call me daddy. Didn't make her cum.
She ended up masturbating with me playing with her. I gave her permission to cum. She came hard and called me daddy.
Then she got dry but I reacted chill.
Morning time I woke her up with an erection. We were so tired we ended up masturbating together. I came on her stomach.
She ended up being horny for me the day after. I sent her a message in Italian and we sexted for half the day (me with the aid of Google translate). She sent me videos and pics. She told me it was the first time in 12 years she had messaged sexually with a guy.
Told me she loved me body and mind.
She confessed she had spent all day off masturbating with her rabbit dildo imagining it was me.
We role played daddy chat. I made her cum again.
I messaged "Your daddy has you well trained. You better surrender to me"
She replied "I'll surrender to you every time"
She is a horny little lady. Submissive. All the sidebar material has helped.
Outside my relationship, I've noticed changes. I have more respect from other men. Women act sexual around me.
I've been practicing flirting. Game. I got fed by one girl at work. She then said, as I took a bite from her spoon "Sexy". Other girls have reacted seculalt to me.
I'll continue what I'm doing
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Overall, I didn't use any effort. I was just myself.
This is what girls mean when they say “be yourself”. This is what TRP should feel like. It means be at ease. Allow yourself to enjoy life. Don’t bend over backwards for people.
Keep this up and I hope you can skip the fake alpha phase, I hoped we could get you to the promised land without that and it seems you are doing a good job.
Be careful to not let the girls and guys interest get to your head. Enjoy it, but don’t need it. It’s the not being needy part and being content part that people feel attracted to, it’s not the words you spew or the face you make or the touch you initiate. It’s that you do those things right instinctually when you are content with yourself and your path. That’s why I love the book of pook, pook puts much emphasis on the instinct and the being natural part.
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She has been more interested in me overall and has been sending more cute messages to me.
I'm following the two thirds rule unless I feel I really want to break it.
Also cut down my beta cringe. When she says "I miss you" I reframe it to physical and tangible.
"I would love you to be here in my bed"
Etc.
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Haha shit. I didn't even set out to do it.