LAMARR__44
1y ago Ask TRP
@lurkerhasarisen So basically I just have to maintain her adoration for me and I’m good, but if she loses some adoration or respect for me she ‘reverts’ to the state before I changed her? Relatively new to redpill but from what I know to maintain the adoration I need to:
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Maintain a masculine frame
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Have an abundance mindset
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Don’t fail shittests
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Always be increasing in value
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Make her work for commitment
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Never lose sex
- Never tolerate disrespect
Is there anything I missed?
1y ago Ask TRP
@lurkerhasarisen So my takeaway from this is that I can mould her to my wishes over time to a certain extent. So, the person I choose to engage in a LTR with should reasonably fit my standards before I perfect her into what I want?
Should I care if a girl dresses modestly?
I’m looking for a LTR, I know that’s unpopular in this community, but I’m not really interested in maintaining multiple women and investing significant time and money just to fuck, also I find the risk of accidentally getting a girl prefers to who I don’t care for isn’t worth the pleasure of sex. For these reasons I want to try and obtain a LTR. I won’t ever being getting married.
Now onto my question, does a woman dressing modestly or immodestly indicate any information about her? Are immodest women more likely to commit infidelity or be less submissive wives? Does it show attention seeking behaviour?
I’m going to assume that the answer to the above are yes as it seems logical to me, but am open to other opinions.
Now to be honest, even if the answers to all of the above were all no, I wouldn’t like my LTR to dress immodestly as it would make me uncomfortable to know that she’s being immodest to other men regardless of infidelity. Is it reasonable to feel this way or am I just unnecessarily sabotaging myself.
Lastly, how would I address these views to someone I just met and am looking to establish a LTR with. For example, if I meet a girl who’s dressing modestly and arrange a date, and at the date she’s dressed immodest or at a future point she’s dressed immodest in public, how should I approach the situation? Should I just make it clear from the beginning that being dressed modestly is a requirement for me? I’m afraid that if I do this (I’m at University right now) rumours will spread about me being misogynistic or other feminist bullshit. Or should I introduce the idea more subtle.
Lastly, what is defined as modest and immodest? At this point my opinion is that any cleavage showing, crop tops, or extremely tight tops is a hard no; tight pants or anything that eventuates the ass is not preferable; baggy tops or long dresses that cover the general shape of the body is what I would want. In general, I don’t give a fuck about arms or legs showing as long as it doesn’t reveal underwear or anything.
I think that I’ve been conditioned to find modesty more attractive because I was raised Muslim (atheist now). I find the idea of multiple wives that are solely my responsibility and submissive to me that don’t even think about another man ideal. I would love a girl that would wear a hijab or niqab. But I realise that finding a non-Muslim girl that would adhere to that is basically impossible.
The answers to your questions are intertwined with the cultural views of your society. While there maybe parallels to be found between our two cultures, we adhere to respective faiths with wildly different morals and ethics. What maybe acceptable for you, in many cases could be a sin for me. It's with this in mind I recommend the following book so you can come to your own conclusions.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites as well as a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
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Should I care if a girl dresses modestly?
I’m looking for a LTR, I know that’s unpopular in this community, but I’m not really interested in maintaining multiple women and investing significant time and money just to fuck, also I find the risk of accidentally getting a girl prefers to who I don’t care for isn’t worth the pleasure of sex. For these reasons I want to try and obtain a LTR. I won’t ever being getting married.
Now onto my question, does a woman dressing modestly or immodestly indicate any information about her? Are immodest women more likely to commit infidelity or be less submissive wives? Does it show attention seeking behaviour?
I’m going to assume that the answer to the above are yes as it seems logical to me, but am open to other opinions.
Now to be honest, even if the answers to all of the above were all no, I wouldn’t like my LTR to dress immodestly as it would make me uncomfortable to know that she’s being immodest to other men regardless of infidelity. Is it reasonable to feel this way or am I just unnecessarily sabotaging myself.
Lastly, how would I address these views to someone I just met and am looking to establish a LTR with. For example, if I meet a girl who’s dressing modestly and arrange a date, and at the date she’s dressed immodest or at a future point she’s dressed immodest in public, how should I approach the situation? Should I just make it clear from the beginning that being dressed modestly is a requirement for me? I’m afraid that if I do this (I’m at University right now) rumours will spread about me being misogynistic or other feminist bullshit. Or should I introduce the idea more subtle.
Lastly, what is defined as modest and immodest? At this point my opinion is that any cleavage showing, crop tops, or extremely tight tops is a hard no; tight pants or anything that eventuates the ass is not preferable; baggy tops or long dresses that cover the general shape of the body is what I would want. In general, I don’t give a fuck about arms or legs showing as long as it doesn’t reveal underwear or anything.
I think that I’ve been conditioned to find modesty more attractive because I was raised Muslim (atheist now). I find the idea of multiple wives that are solely my responsibility and submissive to me that don’t even think about another man ideal. I would love a girl that would wear a hijab or niqab. But I realise that finding a non-Muslim girl that would adhere to that is basically impossible.
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