1y ago Red Pill Me
ANY IDEAS ON HOW TO APPROACH THIS?
● I work front office at a hotel that accommodates business travelers till they find an apartment. ● I see a girl I like that is from another country. ● She is always hanging out with a girl from her country also attractive. ● The 3 of us had many small talks and big talks so I had built some rapport. ● She finally comes to talk to me alone without her friend that was hanging out ALL the time. And she starts telling me her news and stuff. ● I ask her out for a drink and for her whats app and she agrees to give me her number but hesitates and doesn't give me her insta. ● Before she leaves to go to her room she says that she will also tell her friend so we could all have a drink together. ● I check her whats app profile pic and she has a girlfriend-boyfriend kind of picture. ● She will stay here minimum 6 months.
How should I approach this? Should I proceed going to the three person night out? I have some strategies in mind but I do need some opinions.
It's usually best to pass on group dates, until you two have gotten to know each other and you've both gauged your respective interest in each other. However, if you're interested in either of them, ask them out. The worst that could happen is they turn you down.
Beyond that, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
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