I'm what you would call an incel, if were going to be pedantic. It's been some 4 years since I felt the warmth of a woman, and I realise that looks are indeed the most important aspect of a persons ability to attract, but not the only one.
I ditched them all recently for the reasons you mention.
Has anyone here actually met a woman who ticks all of the above?
I think if I stuck to this criteria I wouldn't be able to meet women full stop.
The spreading of communicable diseases is one reason to chastise them.
I used to have a 9 - 5 job, now I run my own business.
I prefer being the boss, thank you very much.