Last night I was scrolling on Instagram and got distracted by some boobs and lingered for a few seconds before continuing to scroll, well my gf was lurking over my shoulder and won’t shut up or stop crying about it and has started stalking the girl who’s boobs it was. She keeps sending me screenshots of the girl. The girl is honestly a 10/10 and is someone I’ve worked with but don’t actually consider her an option for anything because shes bit too much of a slur. My gf took my phone and liked all the girls pictures from my account trying to make it look like I was some thirsty simp. Her dumbass fucked up though because immediately after she requested to follow her from her account. The girls posted shit on her story like “I can drive a bitchcrazy” since then and hasn’t accepted my girlfriends follow request so I’m assuming she caught onto what happen (LOL LMAO LMFAO). Anyway im guessing my gf is just having a hard time facing she’s not the only option in the world. Do I just keep behaving like I could give less of a fuck and let this play itself out? How long do I give her to settle down? I’ve seen this shit drag out for months. Obviously I’m not going to let her guilt me like some bitch for any significant amount of time, how long do I give it before the chances of her being normal again are gone?
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Last night I was scrolling on Instagram and got distracted by some boobs and lingered for a few seconds before continuing to scroll, well my gf was lurking over my shoulder and won’t shut up or stop crying about it and has started stalking the girl who’s boobs it was. She keeps sending me screenshots of the girl. The girl is honestly a 10/10 and is someone I’ve worked with but don’t actually consider her an option for anything because shes bit too much of a slur. My gf took my phone and liked all the girls pictures from my account trying to make it look like I was some thirsty simp. Her dumbass fucked up though because immediately after she requested to follow her from her account. The girls posted shit on her story like “I can drive a bitchcrazy” since then and hasn’t accepted my girlfriends follow request so I’m assuming she caught onto what happen (LOL LMAO LMFAO). Anyway im guessing my gf is just having a hard time facing she’s not the only option in the world. Do I just keep behaving like I could give less of a fuck and let this play itself out? How long do I give her to settle down? I’ve seen this shit drag out for months. Obviously I’m not going to let her guilt me like some bitch for any significant amount of time, how long do I give it before the chances of her being normal again are gone?
Read MoreI had a sleep study done so I had a bunch of tubes and wires on my head and nose and of course looked goofy. Anyway my LTR took a video of it that I didn’t know about and posted it on social media. Yesterday my friends asked how my sleep study went, I had no idea how they knew and my LTR started laughing uncontrollably and pointing at me and asked my friends saw the video. No one else thought it was funny, so they changed the subject and one of them complimented my outfit. Before I can even say thank you my LTR loudly says “it’s dirty” and started laughing again, once again no one else thought was funny. After we got home I told her I noticed she tried to make me humiliated and she went off saying I never compliment her and she thinks I think she’s ugly and started crying. I asked why she only brought that up when I was talking about something she did, so she locked herself in the bathroom sobbing loudly for like an hour and came out with those swollen and puffy red eyes and said I made her feel like scum. Was I reading too much into her trying to humiliate me or am I being gaslit?
Did you have these problems which prompted you to participate in the study before your LTR came into your life or after?
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@destraht Yeah this is the first real negative thing that’s happened since we got together ~6 months ago. Definitely a low body count, I hadn’t considered the possibility of someone rubbing off on her but now that you mention it, unfortunately I believe the negative person who rubbed off on her was her father. I’ve heard stories about her dad acting in a similar way to her mother including the crying afterwards. If it was her dad who’s been apart of her whole life is it possible that behavior is too deep rooted to salvage?
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@destraht that’s all I told her, I wasn’t trying to make her bawl her eyes out in the first place, and wasnt trying to make her keep bawling after she started but I also didn’t wanna just make her think she can do whatever as long as she cries after and I’m going to baby her. I stayed silent after I said that when she came out, she cried some more infront of me then we ate dinner and I wasn’t bitter towards her so she started going back to normal as the hours went on
@DanielLarson Sounds like a string of cunty moves on her part. I'd deadpan to her that she's not SUPPOSED to feel good about herself after treating another person like that. Then, withdraw attention and look elsewhere.
Looking back over the decades, I can't tell you how many women who pushed boundaries and pulled shit like you described, and I let it kinda slide only to find she got WORSE in the future no matter what I did. Rotten bitches to the core, unfixably so. There are MUCH better women out there, who do not pull this kind of crap on their man. I really wish I had decisively pushed away the shitty ones, and left them not feeling good in the aftermath.
Another thing that doesn't tend to work well with bitches who "start shit" is to act really angry toward them. Often, it turns out they're bored or otherwise dysfunctional, and their warped minds THRIVE on creating strife and drama in the people close to them. I wish I learned early on to move on from them, leaving them to feel sad and defeated. Certain broken women feel triumphant when they make you really mad and riled up; don't play into that dynamic.
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I had a sleep study done so I had a bunch of tubes and wires on my head and nose and of course looked goofy. Anyway my LTR took a video of it that I didn’t know about and posted it on social media. Yesterday my friends asked how my sleep study went, I had no idea how they knew and my LTR started laughing uncontrollably and pointing at me and asked my friends saw the video. No one else thought it was funny, so they changed the subject and one of them complimented my outfit. Before I can even say thank you my LTR loudly says “it’s dirty” and started laughing again, once again no one else thought was funny. After we got home I told her I noticed she tried to make me humiliated and she went off saying I never compliment her and she thinks I think she’s ugly and started crying. I asked why she only brought that up when I was talking about something she did, so she locked herself in the bathroom sobbing loudly for like an hour and came out with those swollen and puffy red eyes and said I made her feel like scum. Was I reading too much into her trying to humiliate me or am I being gaslit?
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