"Man" is not the word I would use to describe that person.
Can you explain the "hamster" to me?
I keep seeing people mention frame but it's too abstract for me right now. Got some reading material I can dive into?
Both good and bad experiences shape you. Never lament pain from the path. Just don't dwell on it. Resolve it, give it a place, learn from it and it will be a strong foundation for you to build upon.
Like a fucking boss. Stand firm for the good that is done here. Don't back down against the morons that run Reddit.