IveI've dated aroundalot, ia lot and I found a unicorn.ShesShe's conservative, thinks women today are degenerate, wants to be a stay at home wife& mom, mother, and likes to fuck. There's literally nothingidI would change about her. Except she has A cups.ikI know this iskindskind of childish andshesshe's hot in every other way (ass body face). ibut, I find myself wishing she had bigger tits,iso I brought it uptowith her and she got all sad with me and saidshesshe's not getting a boob job. (WeveWe've been dating 2 years now)idkand I don't know what to do becauseiI find myself wishingiI could fuck hotter women with bigger tits. But, but thisggirl is literally perfect in every other way.
If you're talking about the Latin-American hobgoblin you said you were having problems with last year, then I seriously doubt you've got the guts to risk loosing the pussy you currently have access to now in the hopes of landing something better later. If you could land a hotter chick with bigger tits, you wouldn't be here complaining about the one you settled for.
However, if you both have your own respective homes, no kids together, with none on the way, do yourselves a favor, and just cut her loose so you both can find someone more compatible. You've got nothing to lose in trying your luck out in the field. Just keep in mind, this time around you won't be able to blame your failures on the Kung Flu lock downs. You'll have to accept that the chicks you're approaching may actually have better options to choose from than you and keep in mind, if women in Canada can do better than you, the women in the US won't be any more receptive to your advances.
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@Godblessusall rational & game. 3rd, 4th and 5th books if I had to pick is the subtle art of not giving a fuck and the 48 laws of Power & bachelor pad econ.
2y ago The Hub
@Zavss I'll do you one better. She send me 40 bucks for her half of last night's dinner and then I told her what you said verbatim "you're pushing me away and being super insecure. Let me know when you're good, I don't wanna see you today also can you send me the money for sushi last night" and then her eyes welled up with tears and she said "yeah thats fine I'm sorry I don't wanna breakup" I said "okay, I'll ttyl then" and then she left and let herself out. She also returned my college sweater which is nice.
2y ago The Hub
@carnold03 she tried to dump me 5 seconds ago and I just said okay sounds good and now she's coming over to talk cause now she doesn't wanna breakup since I didnt react....I told her not to come but she's already on her way...ffs
hard next dump her or ghost?
That's entirely up to you, you know her better than we do.
So gents I need your help.
Before quarantine I was 190lbs and about 30lbs away from being shredded. Quarantine hit and I gained a fuckload of weight (1.5 years later im currently sitting at 265lbs fml).
a year and a bit ago, (about 3 months into quarantine when I weighed 230lbs) I met a latina girl and decided that since the clubs were closed, events were cancelled, parties were illegal in canada, im miserably out of shape rendering online "dating" is laughably bad that I'd make her my "quarantine gf"....
fast forward, canada is still closed (most clubs/events are closed) and i'm even fatter than when I met her (265lbs currently & I've been dieting and working out with a goal weight of 165-175)....
The problem is she's super dramatic and she's always creating problems wether it's about me not touching her enough (ive tried to explain to her that my hormones are all fucked up and my libido is fucked cause of it) or she complains that I "love my exes more" because I "showered with them sooner in the relationship" or im making her fat or whatever new problem she decides to create.
I can't find a way to get her to stop. I've tried ignoring it, I've tried agreeing and amplifying it, I've tried having a long discussion and problem solving or letting her vent and cry her eyes out, I've tried telling her to stfu and stop being a child. The most any of these methods produce is 1 day worth of her not being insane and then she's back back being and like this the day after....She's a sweet girl very fragile and I'm her first real bf. (She's 20 and moves here from El Salvador, im 22 and have had 2 gfs which she is obsessed about to the point of commenting on my exes pics "cute".
My big mistake was telling her anything about my past I know, when we started dating I'd been out of the game for a while so I was rusty.
How do I deal with this?
Only one idea comes to mind with that Latin-American hobgoblin you're dating.
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