...a frame destroying Situation ? And what about serious replies for questions like that or do you suggest that these questions should only be answerd with humor and Ignorance? alternative suggestions?
..of becoming the beta who gets even more rules. Thats actually my worry. Therefore do you have an example for operant controlling ? I always wonders who to course correct a woman without DEER-ing.
@SeasondRP as you say currently I
Thanks for your support for Starters Brothers! I think she is asking because its a habit ans on the other hand also a sign of insecurity. Therefore I think MentORPHEUS nailed it there. It is a greater pattern of Controlling. But She is very predictive I only need to stay the alpha that she is currently breaking the rules for instead..
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@Amir1992 Hard to tell without context, it could be a simple habit of hers or part of a greater pattern of controlling. This is easier to prevent than correct once entrenched. Figure out exactly what reward she is seeking and try to channel it toward something more pleasant or productive, perhaps using operant conditioning.
Hi guys, Regarding the DEER and DARE concept. Cut ro the Chase my GF keeps texting me on what I am doing or where I am? Probably 3 times a day Should i answer it as a regular question or is this a shittest? if yes what would be a