First, I'm not claiming to know enough about Chinese culture and the Chinese dating market. I'm not Chinese myself. I am basing my views based on facts that I have learned (e.g. the average income in China, the cost of a house).
This video is complete BP propaganda. What those feminists are NOT telling you is that these women have unrealistic and incredibly high standards.
It's not too late for a 22 year old virgin.
What does a feminine personality mean to you? You want to stop being pushy, I understand that. Beyond that, how do you want others to see yourself?
It's not about reddit, it's about participation on this specific subreddit. Now that you know, don't do it again, and you'll be fine.