awesome post, it really helped me set my mentality straight. this put the nail in the coffin and reminded myself how to navigate, thank you

You realize you don’t even have a fucking chimney

All these years...

Okay I have a kinda weird case... i’m 18 and i met this girl a month ago who is almost 21 now, when we first met my energy and focus was more towards myself, and i guess she liked that so we kind of connected, talked a lot and had similar personalities, at the time i felt like i was in my prime and nothing could effect me, the way i flowed with this girl without a hint of nervousness or...[More]

While yes, i do agree you need time to focus on the things most important to yourself first, think about spending time with friends and going out and having fun. Possibilities are, you expand your networking skills just by chance. I mean come on, someone like yourself has definitely heard “anything is possible” many times in your life. And i speak from experience. Getting out there and just...[More]

right on mate, such great input. I want to thank both of you for the best realistic input i think i could find so far, combining both your logics made me really think about the best way to portray myself

i feel you on the rage phase haha, im 17 and looking past on the last 4 months ive had spurs of irrational (not even witty) kinda assholeish moments, im still working on it everyday trying to make a subtle transition without looking bipolar haha