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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Dual-Mating Strategy

Maybe her previous brutal bad boys weren't soft, loving and understanding enough
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Land_of_the_losers

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1mo ago Stickied

She's not explicitly seeking commitment, and so this doesn't really meet rule 5 for weekday posts. "Open for serious relationship" isn't the same as something like "serious relationship only" or "I need my forever man" or stuff along those lines.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago

I really need to run these by a lawyer first. Can you suggest an alternate category? Single mom tears?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1mo ago

Your flair choice is fine. A few others would fit, including your second choice or even "bailout".

But the post is weekend material, whichever flair we go with. Weekdays we want to stick closely to rule 5:

Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy".

She meets the second half, but since she doesn't explicitly seek commitment using her own words, she doesn't meet the first half.

It's been slow lately, and it's a good weekend post, so I'm all for leaving it up. Let's just keep weekend material on weekends in the future, though.

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mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago

Where do I sign up? I cannot think of anything more I want to spend my money on than a single mom with 3 kids. I could buy a new HD or a C8 corvette, but being Captain Save-a-hoe sounds so much better. Imagine how impressed my friends and family would be.
How stupid can one be to be involved with this tape worm?

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago

20 and its game over already.

Judging by the look on her face she knows this somewhere inside but she still wants to play the young, frail and somehow supposedly still "innocent" "save me captain save a ho" card.

None of this was her fault. Remember that if you feel like strapping on the super hero suit. None of her mistakes were her fault, she just needs a big strong man to save her. Nothing she ever does is going to be her fault. She is just a little girl who goes through life expecting to be given good things. Remember that. No accountability, no guilt at who she takes good things from. Sure you still wanna be Captain save a ho?

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago

I like how she was very careful to make sure the crib was in the background. She sure looks like she needs some help...

...hot, sexy neediness... YOWZA. With diaper smell and everything. What a total smoke-show.

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago

yes, she included the crib because she has been helped plenty already. Crib has worked for her so far. Yet, although she has been carried, "being a great mom" (they are strangely all great aren't they) is her only achievement in life to date.

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HitTheRoadJill 1mo ago

Game over, but she still took the time to bleach her hair in addition to dating online. Her family is helping more than she’ll admit.

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago

Yes, if parents were not in on it, the little girl lost look would be gone and she would not be looking for a big biker who is cuddly on the inside and who accepts kids.

She would be saying "Beta must join with me to make a family and raise my kids and he must support me in my business (bankroll it when it fails)" She would also probably say "Jaden is my world" (because she would have put the effort in and have very little time for anything else).

Its game over but she is like the deer that the arrow has caught unaware and passed clean through. It kicks out in surprise, runs a few steps but then stops bemused. Its game over but the deer doesn't yet know it.

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Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago

3 kids at 20? I can't help but wonder, was it triplets or is she speedrunning bad life choices?

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago

Just look at that pouty little frown though. Doesn't that just tug your heartstrings?

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago

For a woman that was worth it, that pout would matter.

Now, its just as worthless as a Bolivar.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago

I saw a facebook clip about a teenage girl 15 or so who had a, er, "bad boy" boyfriend and got knocked up. Her mother said "There was nothing I could do about it". For starters, the mother (and the mother's boyfriend, for what that's worth) ALLOWED the daughter to have a badboy boyfriend to begin with. "I can't stop my daughter from playing in traffic!"

Then get this, it happened AGAIN. She got knocked up AGAIN from a different "badboy".

Astonishing.

They tried to portray this as wholesome, that she was acting as a good single mother with support from her mother and mother's-boyfriend, but it came across to me as sort of why in more traditional times such behavior would have resulted in social shaming.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago

Back in the day, the family would have lost face to the point they would move to a different town and claimed her husband died in a railroad accident.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago

got knocked up

She didn't get enough sex ed.

got knocked up AGAIN

Then she got too much sex ed.

Hey, at least she's an expert in getting knocked up by now.

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HitTheRoadJill 1mo ago

I actually knew some tough looking dudes who were soft on the inside. I doubt any of them would be soft enough to take on three kids from other men, if they could even afford to do so.

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1mo ago

Outward appearance =/= personality. That's true of a lot of traits, including this one.

I also know lots of outwardly tough looking dudes who are more afraid of a fight than I am.

Conversely, there are guys that look like nerdy engineers who could cut your throat and step over your writhing body like it's just a shitstain on a sidewalk.

But this girl's problem is that she's lying. She doesn't want a soft-on-the-inside guy. She wants a tough dude who's also tough on the inside to everyone but her. This is the type who will deliberately start shit in a bar just to watch "her man" have to step in and beat up a guy she baited into a fight. Or who yells and screams at everyone but somehow doesn't at her. Because otherwise, how is she supposed to feel special? If he's just muscled up but actually quite nice and laid back to everyone, then she doesn't feel "special" when he's nice to her.

Because of this, there will be three types of men she'll actually attract:

Nice on the inside who refuses to take the bait and display his "hardness" on others. Supposedly the guy she wants. She will dump him the first time he refuses to act like a bully. His muscles, in her eyes, will only make him a bigger pussy because "obviously, he could have taken that guy, and he refused to".

Nice on the inside who takes the bait and beats up a guy every once in a while but otherwise acts nice to her. What she actually wants. Unfortunately, this guy will get tired of her starting shit needlessly every time they go out, and having to get into fights he doesn't want (guys who have been in real fights generally shy away from them; girls don't understand that real fights do land guys in hospitals and can kill people accidentally. No one wants a manslaughter felony on their record for a stupid barfight). So he will eventually dump her and find a woman who doesn't need him to perform his manhood in front of her every day.

The most dangerous: a guy who genuinely relishes being the badass bully motherfucker. Because he doesn't stop at barfights. She will enjoy this one until he turns his fists on her. And depending on how fucked up she is, even that might not be enough to get her to dump him.

Bottomline is, yes, there is a healthy way to appreciate someone's appearance. After all, lots of guys workout in the gym and build muscles for the look, with no intention of becoming "hard" on the inside. And as long as you understand that an external appearance is just that, you'll be fine. But that isn't her.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago

I'm sure they exist. But they ain't gonna be taking care of this chick. Ain't nobody that "soft".

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago

They really do exist. I have a friend who is one. He raised 2 kinds not his own. Talks about them all like they are his. unless you asked you would not know which are kids are his or step kids (so unlike a woman). He later fell out with the mother, still calls them his kids. He is paying for a step kid's graduation party in a few weeks. Martial arts instructor who likes a fight and likes to tell people he is tough.

In some cases inside a tough man is a kind man who had a tough start in life, didn't get much praise when he should have had his fair share, didn't get supported by his parents as much as he should have been, probably got sent out to work on the land when he could have been learning. Teachers either didn't notice him or thought he was a problem. So he toughened up and made sure he was safe and also got noticed a bit. But actually all he really craves to hear is "I need you. I value you, good job there". These guys are very easy prey for little girls lost and they can get terribly mistreated. There are less of them these days since single mums and schools taught boys that pussying out got you attention and kept you "safe" but there are still some.

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Bangkok 1mo ago

Clarification needed. Brand or Band clothes. First she was a bus-tour chick passed over on a road (explains children by a bus load), other she (duh) wants a sponsor (coupled with 'my own business' encryption for 'bottomless sack to meet other people and show off').

I cant fault her for wanting brut with a soft heart. As this is a perfect combination for a man. Kill an enemy protect their own. This kind of the man would take her kids to the bridge 3000y ago and come back alone. Today these bridges are used by the women.

Possibly she comes from some sex destination and all the kids are the result of dozens of miles of cock.

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mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago

Where have I seen this before? Like every day. Destitute woman with 3 kids seeks rich (must be tall) Prince Charming. Me? I want a magic pony that flies with sparkles coming out of its ass. I bet I will get what I want before she does.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago

hi :)

Oh, look at that, we have a lot in common! I mean, I love non-specific songs and books too, teehee!

Puts on sunglasses and sings about how I wear them at night

Don't mess around with the guy in shades oh noooooo!

Puts on a trenchcoat, spins around a lot, sings about how I will never give you up

See, I'm brutal and also soft and tender on the inside, like a puppy!

Takes off trenchcoat and sunglasses, assumes nerdy, serious posture

Sorry, chicka, I don't really care what you like or what your dreams are, nor does the internet! Try OF, you can make your own non-specific "art" and open your own business at the same time!!!

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago

She looks tired. So very tired...

*points and laughs*

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mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago

Like Nelson of the Simpsons. Ha-ha.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

  • 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

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Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

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