The same thing keeps happening to me for 13 years! https://streamable.com/l6hr5u
Men are the worst! https://streamable.com/no6quh
I am the too woke sibling. https://streamable.com/pp69gc
I’m VERY happy but this is all my mother’s fault! https://streamable.com/rkcg4m
Think about how you can be more empathetic. (This is her reply video, see my comment). https://streamable.com/o32ljo

polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ
For the record, the name of The Deity she angered is “Jesus”. See Video 4. I attached her response video out of fairness, optional. You are free to agree with her, or not, but I wanted her to have her side of the story particularly since, like the previous video diary I posted, this is over the course of years of her having the opportunity to reflect back upon her own life choices. It's not something I just took out of context. These are, like Chris Hansen, me just showing them their own transcripts.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Lady you are of Indo-european heritage, so I expect the gods you have upset are familiar to us all regardless of their actual name. You will have angered a maternal deity who runs a successful harmonious home -such as Juno or Frigga. Probably you neglected your responsibilities as the mother of a household because you thought you knew best regardless of your husband's instructions or the custom of your ancestors and this caused damage to your family. Harming your own family is a grave sin. Actually its about the one real sin in pre-christian indo-european religion. Now in this life you are cursed to be a scold who knows best, never having a husband and children because you want to run your mouth not a good happy home. This will continue until you learn the errors of your ways. At this rate it looks like you are running out of time to overcome this in the present life.
It could be quite easy to reform. Yes, men would tolerate your shit more if you were hotter. The easy way to achieve that is to lose weight. Just eat less. You can't win that one unless you just do less of what you want, then as if by magic the goddess will remove your weight and you get what you actually want and more -you will get more men and men who will put up with more shit.
Same applies to the bigger problem -your attitude. Some men will still match with you, in spite of being fat .(So its not the fat that is the real deal breaker). All you have to do is not lecture them, not rant at them, not tell them men are crap to women, be good company and they will come round your house and watch documentaries with you. I advise you not to watch leftist documentaries. Most men are only pretending if they say they can tolerate that stuff. They just want to bang you and hope you will make them dinner and do their laundry. They will put up with some shit to do so -even to the point of working all their life to provide for you and your children -like your dad did- but give men less leftist shit and you will find everything easier.
In short, you can't have it all your own way if you want the benefit of a man to watch TV with. Can't you hear the gods laugh? Its such a small thing really but you just seem to fail to see it.
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
13 years on a dating app will get you nowhere if you refuse to put even 1 year into healthy eating and exercise. When you apply zero effort into climbing out the bottom of the barrel, you shouldn't be surprised when people ghost you every time someone else pops up in their matches, because statistically they're pretty much guaranteed to be better than you.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
@Typo-MAGAshiv if there's a post that has copious "Single Woman Tears", this one certainly applies!!!
It's not just her diet: she says that she's "honest" about who she is. She feels no effort to change for the better to get what she wants because she's proud of who she is. "You know I'm a man-hating entitlement queen who not only puts zero effort into my appearance, but even got a nose ring to disgust men away!" Whenever I hear women complain about their dating life with a face piercing, I think of how they justify paid dates with "It costs me money to be pretty for you!" Well, removing an ugly face piercing takes zero effort!
For her entire adult life from 18 throughout her 20's, the peak of her feminine life, she treated men with utter disdain and astonishingly, not a single "worthy" man out there was willing to invest in a date with her. She's "honest" with them: She's the prize no matter what she does! but she doesn't listen to their silent answer: She isn't good enough for any of them.
There's two sides to honesty: There's speaking without restraint but then there's also taking feedback and self-reflection which she utterly lacks. She got angry at the message men HONESTLY gave her: She can either change if she wants change in her life, or accept similar to what other post peak/wall women do: "I can be happy single and it's better than settling!" Well, that latter part isn't true but if that narrative can allow her to mentally survive, so be it.
She isn't even middle aged yet but she has a long ride downhill to her last day dying alone. I suggest she buy a sled and name it Rosebud.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1mo ago
Fat is not a preference, fat is a consolation prize, a scraping of the fat bottom of the barrel. She needs to understand that.
"Never had a relationship" is a huge red flag. Not "One boyfriend who I dated loyally for ten years". But "Not one relationship".
So she's fat and has been endlessly pumped and dumped.
Dropping her after two weeks after initial interest: either they found better, or they got bored of the conversation to nowhere, or she made dumb demands that were not in keeping with the value offered (which is minimal).
And she cannot understand why this isn't working for her.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
I'd like to be accurate as much as possible for our sake as well as hers.
I didn't listen to her entire video diary (it's is VERY extensive!) but she appears to have claimed being "ghosted" and unable to even get to 1st base for her entire adult life up to age 31.
I know that sounds unbelievable in these modern times, but it's quite possible. I lost my virginity to a 35 year old corporate nun virgin herself. It was... awkward sex to say the least but memorable.
If you watch her videos, you'll see what an annoying personality she has so it's quite possible this is true. So if her status as an annoying virgin somehow makes her more desirable than a decent looking CC rider leftover, you're in luck because... she's single and available!
Hmmm, this amuses me because like other tiktok videos, one would think that all of these women engaging in loud mating calls would have their DMs and inboxes FULL of prospective suitors and they'd be pumping out kids left and right.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
There are fetishists out there who into fat chicks. (Ugh).
In contrast, I don't think any woman has ever had a "low income man" fetish.
WalmartDemon 1mo ago
Understand this: If a woman claims that she is "alone" or "single" or "hasn't had a boyfriend in 13 years on ze apps" - whatever the variation, it just means that she has failed to secure a relationshit and lock one down. All the while she may very well have 5 ONS with 5 different men per week...
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1mo ago
She's a young woman on the apps. She's not ugly, she's young. Some guys like fat.
There is no way this woman can't get laid. She never says she can't get laid. She's complaining about not getting commitment.
Not buying the virgin thing unless she is literally going after top 0.5% men all the time, in which case this is on her.
That's happening. She'll get inbound offers of rescue as a result of this, they always do. And some of those guys will be ok. Desperate, mid range guys.... but they'll be ok.
If she lowers her standards to stop 20%, she can get laid.
If she lowers her standards to her actual bottom 20% value then she can get commitment.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
You're free to have that opinion.
I'll only add that the ability to do something and getting it are two different things. Us men cannot imagine not getting laid when it's available but women are simply different. Think about how hilarious this scenario is: Some chubby chaser, incel, or lonely guy gets her on the phone and she starts spouting wokeisms, how much she hates men ("haha! It's a joke!") and pumping him for whether he voted for Harris and the guy finally just ghosts her.
But, like, if I knew everything I'd be super rich. So maybe you're right.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
I think that was the point being made. She can get laid this instant. She just needs to drop her standards down to her actual match level. Plenty of men willing to toss a fuck into her. It just wont be men that she is willing to see as sexual beings much less human beings.
It's kind of like how left wing women get furious that right wing men, or men with the same markers as such, refuse to commit to them, while ignoring left-wing men, or men with the same markers as such, who would be willing to sit thru those shit-screed sessions or even agree with them.
Oh wait, this one is a whokeshit too so she has been choosing to layer that on top of the fat and bad personality. Dumb bitch is choosing every difficulty increase option that she can and is wondering why she is getting stun-locked even in the tutorial.
The end result of her choices is on her. She's the one that devalued her pussy so badly that no man in the upper percentiles is willing to even pump and dump it. She can still get a man, she might need to check the local homeless shelter for a quadriplegic though. Or she could stop being a fat woke bitch.
NPC070201 1mo ago
She casually insults the people that Jesus died for (Christians), then claims that her and people like her are better at being 'christian' then actual Christians.....then wonders what diety she made angry? Lol I can't help but to laugh at the absurdity of this sow.
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JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Confirmed.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 1mo ago
"I'm open, honest, and upfront with everybody..."
Except, with YOURSELF. You think that the problem is only that you are fat. I mean, you are, but much more saliently, you act loud, brash, obnoxious, insistent, and pushy. I'm quite surprised you hooked a prospect for 2 whole weeks, because I got completely exhausted of listening to you before that couple of minutes long video was finished.
I'm saying this as someone who has dated some pretty big girls in my time.
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Regarding the first video posted, she goes on and on about being upfront about her physique and her dealbreakers. As if her candor in her profile is the only thing that matters.
Lady, you can be a "10" on paper, but still have an off-putting personality. If every guy you've matched with and talked to for the last 13 years has said, "Nope. I'm out." the issue is probably your personality.
Are you loud and obnoxious? Are you unkind to service personnel? Are you too emotional? Do you complain too much? Do you rant about social injustices? Do you swear a lot in public?
These are turnoffs. Start there.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
Granted, men might be bailing because they don't want to eat every meal at a buffet or go into debt trying to keep up with cost of feeding her fat ass.
WalmartDemon 1mo ago
She's fat, but is she exceptionally so when the average weight for an adult woman in the United States is 78 kg? Average, mind you, at a height of 161cm.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
Yes. She's grossly over that just based on visual inspection alone. She is well over 200 lbs, easily. Possibly over 250.
Either way, it's still going to hold her back from finding a guy that will put up with the rest of her shit.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
Miss, maybe you should lean into your talents? There are lots of things you could do.
You could try out livestock-lifting equipment, for instance. Perhaps a structural engineer would want to see how much weight a newly-built bridge could bear when you move across it on a flatbed truck? A gastric bypass clinic might need a model for the 'before' picture. You could demolish concrete structures by rolling downhill into them while wearing a helmet. Or you could calibrate a seismograph on the other side of the world by jogging. There are pie-eating contests, pudding-eating contests, omelet-eating contests, diabetes medication contests, taking the biggest shit contests... do I need to come-up with all the ideas around here?
GeorgeIII Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Wow, this chick just makes me… sad. I feel sorry for her. I’m also aware she has made her choices and is the way she is because she wants to be.
I’m sad because she, like many people in the world, including some men on here, hold a certain misunderstanding about the world.
The misunderstanding is this: if you cannot or will not comply with the “rules” of what is desired, of what people want, you will always have a harder time finding love/sex/marriage.
In women, fat is a unattractive, woke is a unattractive, 30+ years old is a unattractive.
In men, short is a unattractive, poor is a unattractive, and awkward/autistic is an unattractive.
It does not matter how “honest” or “transparent” you are about this. Something that is unattractive is unattractive. Asking the world to look past this is asking for a lot from many people.
Either truly accept your flaws (including accepting poorer outcomes), or work to change your flaws. These are the only options, lest you become a bitter and hateful of the world. The world which did not bend, according to your own preference.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
I enjoyed this video, and the subsequent diary, for that reason.
If the first video was the only one I had, I would have not posted it. A fat, old woman crying she's lonely would tend to elicit sympathy rather than judgement. It's her diary that reveals she CHOSE all this.
Men don't choose to be short or autistic although even autistic people can engage in self-improvement to offset that disadvantage. This woman, on the other hand, openly embraces alienating everyone around her including her own family members.
She can get a good old fashioned paid dinner date with a modicum, a "quantum" of effort: 1) Yank the nose ring out. How long does that take?
2) Keep her big mouth shut. Talk about something else: A nice movie about penguins. Helping stray cats find homes. There's plenty of stuff to talk about that's inoffensive to people. 3) Spanx. Squish her belly fat down and pump her fat tits up. Makeup. Yes, she would be truly putting lipstick on the proverbial pig but she'd get dates and laid.
And that's with nearly no effort whatsoever!
But did I mention that a Real Lady Woke Princess Mononoke doesn't make EFFORT?!?! That's for MEN! REAL Ladies lie in bed and the princess fights past a dragon for her! She has female DNA and breathes. That's it. She does NOTHING else!!!!
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1mo ago
That documentaries one..... I just want to write to her and say "Me too! I just wanna snuggle up and watch a documentary together! Just chilling out, relaxed, making out together a little on a Sunday night, just me and my slim girlfriend".
Dxmx99 1mo ago
Hahaha. Fat girl #1 getting exactly what she put's out. Her politics: Psycho, Her "deal-breakers": Unrealistic for her status. I don't feel bad at all for women who want a man that is the complete opposite of themselves. There is no "accept me as I am" , the only one who will take you as you are is the Lord and he demands improvement from you going forward. In her case, God will be taking and then hiring the soul of crane operator the same day she dies.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1mo ago
1) you're fat
2) you're annoying
3) you're shrill
4) you're fat
5) you're woke
6) you're insufferable
7) you're fat
8) you want want want but don't act on those wants
9) you don't take even a nanosecond to consider what men want in women
10) you're fat
This completely contradicts everything else you said in other videos, and is an excellent example of why it's prudent to mentally add the statement "right now I feel..." to the beginning of anything a woman says.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
You forgot the nose ring. It’s the first thing I see on any woman. They make me puke.
I’m reminded of smoking. When I came of age it was popular and I hate it. I start coughing. My wife smoked and stopped at my request. This wasn’t just women but rather cultural.
Finally you missed she hates men. Some feminists deny it’s about hating men but many are proud of it. She regards us as sub human. She wants a servant to pander to her in exchange for sex treats like one of Michael Vic’s poor dogs. Women like this treat men like crap but when they’re young they can sometimes get away with it.
What a literal God awful human being who has meticulously documented how awful she is. So we all know. Like the My Little Pony jar guy documented his fetish but at least that had a sense of humor.