Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
It never seems to occur to these women that the longer the list of desirable traits that a man has, the larger the probability that same man wants nothing to do with them in particular (he can do far better than them) and it only gets worse as these women get older and more baggage and liability ridden.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
One aspect of lists I found amusing was their attempt to hide their own hypergamy and selfishness. Consider this one (note how comments are disabled!) https://youtu.be/d6wG_sAdP0U?t=516
72 points on her list and just happened to be buried in them... 1) Tall. 2) High income/education. 3) Jewish.
When they're called out for their selfishness, they can argue: "I'm not ONLY looking for money and looks! It's just complicated!"
There's a term for this in law school: The paper chase.
This woman's "secret" to success was she made a legitimate effort to market herself and to "give the guy a chance" by him paying for dates and meeting the top 3 criteria and slowly relaxing on the rest because of "love".
She succeeded ironically because a majority of women in the audience are NOT going to follow her lead. If more women did this, like my grandmother 100 years ago, then these men would soon realize they were in high demand and wise up.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Dating apps are worse for both reasons, you are on the wrong side of 30, and men are increasingly abandoning dating apps.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Or at the very least what men are still there are starting to figure out to ignore any women that try to make demands of them because it means those women aren't actually interested in them, they are just looking for free stuff and entertainment.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ
@Typo-MAGAshiv I labeled as leftovers but also wondering if this is Big Question material. Happy Hump day everyone!
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1w ago
I got ya, fam.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Thank you! Happy Friday!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
"Leftovers" was the better call.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
So what ever happened to those 2-3 potentially good partners you were meeting each year?
Hurled out the car window like empty Doritos bags after you'd gotten what you'd wanted out of them, were they?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
They were clearly inferior sub 6'13" manlets that didn't make money like a CEO and have the free time of a unemployed man, and dared to be bigots that had interests in life other than just validating her.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
It's astonishing, isn't it, how they are so casual about something handed to them their great-grandmothers would have KILLED for? Because she was handed 2-3 top tier men, year after year, she treated them like a disposable commodity. From Starship Troopers:
If you haven't seen it, Casablanca "Someday they may get scarce". https://youtu.be/BJeAQFzdNW4?t=33
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
What happened was the hypergamous curse of "well what else is out there?", repeated until the answer became nothing.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
You are correct.
She: If I keep waiting, Prince Charming will eventually come and save me, say millions of western women.
Me? I laugh.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
This is such a classic Leftover and example of what goes through their overgrown teenage minds. As @Everpax also observes, this is The Husband Store paradigm in action but there's more!
Piecing together the clues to her befuddlement, "recently" she's shocked that things changed. Did it take her 3 years to figure this out or perhaps did she actually think she had hooked charming, handsome, gigachad perhaps in her late 20's just when the clock struck midnight and...
he wriggled off the hook (or she casually discarded him after he got "uppity") and Rip Van Winkle woke up 3 years into The Future!
I have a relative whose going through this: She's living together with a tall, tattooed guy and applying tats to herself and she's gone from 24 to 28. She doesn't want to get married because she prefers being "strong and independent" until she's "ready to settle down" and likely keeping her options open as well. She's said as much to me at family dinners.
Now she's stuck with "socially awkward" men with actual HUMAN needs and they're not both "consistent" and "interesting". They're, gasp, AVERAGE!
Which for us men (to her) are sub-human.
Even so, during her 20's, she was an absolute lottery winner. Most men were lucky to land a SINGLE decent girl in our 20's (or let her get away) and make EFFORT to find something NORMAL and she threw 3 perfect men in the trash every year during her 20's, failed to secure commitment from one at the last minute, and is now literally thinking of hitting the streets because they'll be "better than the apps". Yeah, good luck with that.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
It worked out pretty damn well in that one Julia Roberts film where she takes Richard Gere's money and gets to insult the snooty saleswoman with how much money she has. "You thought I was just a mere trashy hooker, huh? Well, I AM a hooker, but I'm dressed expensively now!" That's surely the high-point of existence.
I'm not really very big on designing my life around a work of complete fiction, but there's surely more fun in gambling-away one's future.
Hey, is her tattooed adonis fuck-buddy playing the field too, or are they gonna be an exclusive couple out of mutual self-preservation?
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
No, please, don't do that! We men will miss you something fierce if you do that. We promise to be more kind, consistent, interesting, attractive, and emotionally available! Just keep on swiping and you're basically guaranteed to find your Prince Charming sooner or later!
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
I love it when they say this because I know that in their minds they think this is a sobering threat that's gonna scare men straight.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
That phrase is such utter nonsense. Ugh.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
It's really quite brilliant from a woman's perspective, because it functionally means "whatever I am feeling you have to validate me and also approve of whatever I do as a result of said feeling".
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Absolutely true.
We need to normalize responding to this female phrase with, "Vapid drivel like that is why men no longer take women seriously."
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
I've never actually been sure what it's supposed to mean or why it's supposed to be a must-have.
Me? I sob upon command. You want emotion? Okay here ya go: "WAHH MY MOM DIDN'T HUG ME ENOUGH AND A SCARY CLOWN APPEARS IN MY NIGHTMARES!!!" Pretty attractive, innit?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I looked it up and it literally means what I think it should, but for all intents and purposes (for them!), it means he shouldn't have any emotions aside from ones that please her exactly when she wants without her asking or specifying them to him (he should just "know"). This is similar to the old line "self-confident BUT sensitive!"
If she asks him "what are your thoughts?" they should be wholesomely sentimental as he shed a tear at sunset because he remembers how his wonderful grandmother used to tell him to remember the sunsets before she passed away. If he's crying because he remembers being bullied as a child, then ICK!
Ironically, men who are "emotionally available" whether in the classic or feminine entitlement sense are going to be manipulative and/or independent hence why so many of these women don't get wifed up by them in their 20's.
If you're a smart, good-looking guy you're not going to wife them up in a few months. You might move in with them for a year or two as you observe how selfish they are and utterly unsupportive and after the first few fights where she says "That's it! I'm through because you didn't wash the dishes this morning!" he says "Ok, if THAT is what YOU want!" and he packs up and leaves.
That's what I suspect happened here: She was with a guy like this at 28 then broke up with him 3 years later and now... things are different than when she met him. It must be something changed in the apps...
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
That's why psychics don't date women, because they just "know" all their hidden dirty laundry.
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
I'm sure she got some very measured, realistic replies from her fellow women...