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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4w ago
Ok, you dumb woman, but now here's your list:
Must NOT have a full time job, so you can keep my home clean, cook, and make my life easier in general
We will have one car, and you must ask permission to use it
Must not provoke me to them with your attitude or disobedience
Must have a submissive, agreeable mentality. Must be willing to respect every dollar I make as the sole breadwinner.
You must be a virgin
Must not have a college degree
Must dress in skimpy attire of my preference on dates. Must have absolutely zero expectations of any money being spent on dates. Must not expect to leave the house for dates. Must dress modestly in public. Must not wear makeup.
Must be able to shut up
Must be able to shut up
Must be able to shut up
Cannot have a rebellious spirit or refuse any direct commands
Must be willing to go wherever I go, for life, which probably means leaving your family
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4w ago
I love how many times you mention "must be able to shut up".
Finding a woman who can do that is a taller order than any list of silly shit these Carols say!
Cutthroat 4w ago
Lol she lowkey listing all her exes
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
"Also, Chad's cum will always be tastier than yours"
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
That has always been true.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1mo ago
Oh she was absolutely ran thru™ by a felon, probably a dangerous one at that
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
No felonies?
It didnt click till I read your post. Now I realize that is a very specific thing to say. The site I found this post on (that toxic sit we all fled from) was saying that this is the struggle that modern women have to go through. This list shouldnt exist because men should be normal and decent to begin with and this is how far we have fallen. That this poor girl has to specifically say no felons because men because men that hit her up are felons? It doesnt make sense unless you step back and realize that this list is a woman looking for a bailout. She had her fun and now is ready to settle down with a "good man." In other words she got ran through, probably is a single mother, and is now looking for a provider.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 4w ago
It's not even coded. She starts with a demand for a good job, and then follows up with demands for a leader/provider mentality.
This is a woman looking to retire financially, emotionally and sexually.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4w ago
On my dating profile, if I said: "no meth whores" and "you must not have ripped-out handfuls of your own hair" I think it might raise a number of legitimate questions.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
So I'm guessing my usual methods of grunting, urinating on tables and leg-humping your mother aren't "proper"?
Pffsht. And I bet you're too posh to drink water out of the toilet on a hot day, too?
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4w ago
Most men are certainly able to communicate feelings and be totally honest, but that's not what women want. When we do these things, women shame and use this information against us.
She wants you to feel all the right things about her and tell her how amazing she is all the time, even if it's false. That's what "properly" means.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4w ago
My own mom wasn't averse to that kind of rope-a-doping. Albeit it was more "my children should only say untroubling things". Victorian-era bowdlerized 'family Shakespeare' books with all the sex & violence removed was basically written for people like her.
During my first stint in grad school, the pressure had piled-on to a degree in my 2nd year (I'd also taken a part-time job), that I started to feel overwhelmed. Having any free or idle time whatsoever made me feel as if I was forgetting to do something. I found myself lying in bed, night after night, looking at the ceiling and just having this nagging gut worrying that I had missed some vital assignment and I'd get blindsided the next day. I was terrified of flunking out. Also, there was the general weariness of working flat-out and flashes of disorienting imposter syndrome (I didn't really know what was happening to me at the time).
At some point, I guess my priss of a mom asked, "So how's grad school?" I basically gave a poorly-articulated description of what I was going through, and she replied with a kind of tut-tutting noise, followed by a cold "I think somebody needs to adjust their attitude, mister."
Which was par for the course with her. Really, I should've seen that coming a mile away.
Today, she wonders why her kids don't call.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
Gat dayum, that's one hell of a "I've been ran thru by these" confession list of "dealbreakers".
(Does not apply if you are a hawt Chad, and then the list increments later.)
Though even without this horrific list, there's one massive tell just from the pic alone - I have never seen a woman unironically wear cheetah/leopard/misc feline print anything in clothing that was not some form of raging dumpster-fire. Almost a big a tell as that nostril piercing.
Also from the lack of collarbone and cleavage, she's likely well on her way to fatting herself out of her preferred market and her resentment of that will be taken out on whatever poor schlep is foolish enough to try to do a Kessel Run thru her list of dealbreakers.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
Fortunately, I have a bunch of men with only Class 1 misdemeanors so they're good!
But you know, if I could get this Cadillac on the secondary market even if it's a bit of a fixer upper, I'd go for it... https://i0.wp.com/bamfstyle.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/sc83tan-7cx-sunglasses.jpg?ssl=1
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
I mean if it looks like the one in the picture, then all it really needs is a paintjob that isn't a shade of baby shit. Even basic black or white would do.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Leader/provider never actually means that. It means "Guide and carer" Its rather like getting an updated and more pleasing version of your dad -responsible for you and organising things for you but you have sex with him and he can't tell you what to do.
The leader's authority goes no further than leading her to do what she wanted to do anyway. He's really more of a butler.
What she needs to do it to consider is what she will in return help him to do that he wanted to do anyway in life.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
My older sister since (divorced) from her navel officer ex who was a piece of work. The guy was so type-A, they had to redefine the alphabet for him.
Her story goes as follows: She was 6 months pregnant with the son and he sees her struggling with the broom he had PROVIDED her. So he LED her by grabbing the broom and sweeping and she was relieved until he handed it back to her and said:
"That's how it's done!"
And walked away.
True leadership and provider. If you want to pay your respects, he's stationed at Pearl Harbor.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
He gets to enjoy her opinions and her vibes. If you expect anything beyond that, you need an attitude adjustment.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1mo ago
Yeah, check your privilege.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Yeah, I did. It said expired 1968. Bummer.
Guess I will just have to behave like a feminist now and agitate for more privilege.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Lets cut the BS.
She: I need a bailout!
BTW I do not see a height requirement. When that is not listed, you know she is serious. Serious as a tapeworm.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1mo ago
yeah - good spot. Why is she not listing height?
She is going to get spammed by hundreds of sub-6 foot sub humans!!!
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
I didnt catch the lack of a height requirement either. When a woman doesnt have a height requirement, that means things with her are that bad.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
I just assumed that her fat fat gouty thumbs got tired of typing by the time she got near the end of her long long list.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1mo ago
My list of requirements: must not wear leopard print.
Oh dear, she doesn't qualify. Sucks to be her.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4w ago
YOU JUST CAN'T HANDLE HER AWESOMENESS!!