Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Women are afraid to divorce men because of guilt? Really? Why then are 80% of divorces started by women? Guilt can't be working too well on women.
Is this like most women being afraid of spiders and mice when men are around but dealing with them fine when men are not around and their children are afraid of them?
Heaviuh_Things 1w ago
Don't forget the fact that many of them even throw divorce parties complete with dick-swinging "dancing bears"....guilt seems to be code for some kind of feminine anxiety-loaded overthinking.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 6d ago
Yes, this sort of thing shows it is not guilt. Women generally fear shame not guilt. Being allowed by law to do a shameful thing -take money you did not earn from someone who has taken care of you and may be the father of your children- is like a drug for them. They get high on it. Women love getting away with shameful things.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
IKR? More like they just haven't managed to rationalize an exit strategy yet that doesn't make them look like disloyal cunts. Being one is fine. Just can't have people catching on is all.
Same women will cheat on their decent husbands with Chad and then be buttmad malding that Chad refuses to commit after they literally just proved to him that their loyalty is worthless.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
The guilt is just killing them. Eating them up from the inside. Horrible, that guilt.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Nothing as agonizing to a woman as not having figured out a way to blame a man yet.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
I've heard that taking your divorce settlement and buying a Lexus certainly helps.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
The hamster wheel was flying with this one:
"Us women are trained to be caring for other people which is why we're hypergamous and expect to be taken care of while judgmental . Yet, we still feel guilt even after a man meets those expectations but we're bored which is clearly us being oppressed somehow. Doing what you want even if it's actually destructive in the long term for all involved because you want to feel good temporarily should be totally ok and you need therapy to pull the trigger on that!"
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
That is a formula 1 hamster wheel. I found the way that not divorcing your husband was actually misogynistic to be an interesting turn.
"Notice how disparaging yourself for wanting more sure sounds like contempt and ingrained prejudice against women. Ask yourself. Do I allow other people to want more? Do I think it’s admirable and important and inspiring for other people to want more and go get it?"
So is it misandry if I don't dump my lady for a 20 year younger woman or in fact just to get some peace? Don't all husbands want more? Is it misandry not to be a bigamist if you can afford it?
Oh wait this is like you can't be racist to white people? Denying men more is actually just fine, in fact its necessary probably to stop misogyny.
I would love to see this woman debate with someone in the manosphere.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
Failing to divorce your wife on a whim is a pure expression of contempt for men. That tracks.
The patriarchy works in mysterious ways!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I regularly debate them on X. They commonly act like teenage girls and then get the last word "Your argument and YOU are stupid!" then block me so I can't reply.
Which is fine in that they are perceived as the cowardly creatures they are.
One even said to me before doing the respond-and-block: "I worry others are reading your stupid ideas!"
So sure, on college campuses or perhaps on a dinner date where they are pandered as princesses, they are accustomed to easily winning a debate and constructing the most elaborate rationalizations. Then they hit X which is (now) open and they are flustered.
The 38 year old egg freezing gal: https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/325249/this_is_all_men_s_fault
Makes a half dozen daily posts of conflicting rationalizations including but not limited to: 1) Women are empowered now and men can't handle it (or me!) 2) The intersectional white male patriarchy oppresses me! 3) Hot Chads are the BEST most HONEST men so don't bother with ugly loser men! I only dated Chads! 4) I'm 38 and eggless because men wasted my time! 5) Marriage is a benefit to men! Women should stay single! 6) Women shouldn't allow men to waste her time without make a marriage proposal!
And so on. Other men do call them out and that seems to trigger them. I think they block us but it's like playing whack-a-mole.
Heaviuh_Things 1w ago
What happens when you're debating face-to-face, far from X and the like? Do they pepper-spray you when they get triggered and have lost an argument?
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
If you get any particularly funny exchanges, maybe post them on this site?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I can start posting them to TRP feed. Will tag you.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
Yes, not material deprivation. Not physical harm. Not financial hardship. Not threat of ostracism or banishment or imprisonment. FEELINGS. Oh no. How do these poor creatures manage to survive? What with all the FEEEELINGS that they experience?
But the worst feeling of all-- which totally justifies blowing-up an otherwise working marriage-- is BOREDOM, apparently. And beyond that, ENNUI. Those two are just the worst, I guess.
Suuuuure, you've been 'trained'. It's not because you're a grandstanding neurotic or because you like to manipulate others for sympathy, it's everybody else who made you what you are.
Remember Mattress Girl? She was so upset by her feelings that she even began to carry a mattress around. Even doing-- ICK-- something akin to undemanding physical labor, the craziest of all performance art pieces! Ahhh, but that wasn't her patriarchal programming which forced her to turn her private turmoil into public spectacle and preen in the media attention, that was a righteous feminist protest.
And what of your accomplishments? The hirings? The paychecks? The promotions? The awards? The times you achieved something great? Why, that wasn't anybody else who did that to you, that was 100% YOU, girlfriend! You're a tough-as-nails WINNER, boss-chick! It's only the failures and flaws and bad decisions that were never your fault.
So what do we say to the man who undergoes a midlife crisis and divorces his saintly 45 year old wife to go party with younger, hotter chicks? Surely, that's his prerogative! We can't make him feel bad for doing what makes him happy, right? If he wants a sportscar and a 22 year old cash-hungry model on his arm, then he should follow his dreams, for other futures were open to him and there is no shame in wanting the best for yourself. This author would surely never judge or criticize him for doing that, for that would be hypocritical of her.
Conveniently, with the right divorce lawyer, the house and kids can be had, and mommy can start fucking Chads again. Teeheehee!
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
https://stayorgocoaching.com/ This is her website. I think she caters for rich kept wives who will almost certainly find everything can be convenient for them in divorce. 1 hour 30 mins of her coaching time costs $565. Yeah that much for a video call. You are not going to pay that unless you are paying with someone else's money. For women like her who married a good guy who set them up for life, they really can have it all their own way and will probably never feel any real regret because they have more than they need for life many times over.
The site is covered in pictures of -you guessed it- her in summer dresses trying to look empowered, energetic and sexy. I bet she loves chasing Chads, though when you look at her face, she looks too selfish to actually want to bang her unless you were drunk.
Heaviuh_Things 1w ago
Perhaps I need to get my eyesight checked again, but she does look rather like a long-haired man with a good amount of make-up on...
See? High-IQ moves by Super Feminist Britta, again! Target those rich, desperate (bored!) housewives for their money, and punish their men in the process.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
She got that Big Cunt Energy.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Yeah big dry cunt energy.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
It took her 1,000 paragraphs of mindless psychobabble, but she finally revealed the strategy she favors. She thinks the "good guy" will give skanks the softest landing when they need to go "find themselves."
Hey, the "good guy" might even happily take her back after she's banged randoms for six months and decides she wants to "come home for the sake of the kids." No chance, sweaty.
Heaviuh_Things 1w ago
Reminds me of another dishonest, psychobabbling blogger who claimed she gave her husband "a loving divorce" because it was all about those "bridges of understanding". You know...I'm destroying your future...lovingly....knowingly.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
If he refuses, then he wasn't all that "good" to begin with and you were correct to dynamite your marriage. Teeheehee!
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Decent men wear a perpetual "kick-me" sign and follow thru, sweaty.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
The best way to prevent modern women feeling guilty for divorcing a good man for some dumb reason is to not marry these women in the first place, mainly because the odds are, they have already done things that would have those potential husbands disqualify them from marriage if only those men knew about it beforehand.
Heaviuh_Things 1w ago
The biggest cause of divorce is marriage, after all.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I can't wait for the day where most men low-key know that gaps in a woman's social media = slut trying to hide her past long enough to upgrade to whore. Because your average woman cannot stop finger fucking her phone long enough to successfully pretend she doesn't have social media. So they'll have to admit they have it, and they'll try to sanitize it via mass post deletions.
But those will leave so many obvious blanks compared to their clear addiction to make it clear to any man willing to fire a few neurons.And do things like snoop on her friends profiles. Just because she isn't tagged in a photo does not make the photo go away.