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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ
This one has been sitting in my backlog for a month now. However, the X algorithm kept throwing new content at me so she went down the queue. There's a sister video from the same poster to show how she's doing which I'll either wait for next weekend or @Typo-MAGAshiv may approve for weekday posting. We'll see. Enjoy the rest of the weekend!
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Women love toying around with their many options in their 20s, but sure hate being on the other side of that coin in their 40s. Also found the comment about him being 48 quite amusing, as if that wouldn't be a great deal for a woman her age. Even as her dating prospects slowly erode down to nothing, she still thinks Mr. Perfect is right around the corner...
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Exactly, "Just one more floor at the husband store" - except she gets to the roof and there's nothing waiting but the humiliating walk down the stairwell to the street exit.
Its a similar pattern when people gamble. "One more pull on the slot machine" until you have zero bank and you're leaving the casino with nothing.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Geezer story time: I loved Las Vegas back in the 90's. It had a lot of gross cigarette smoke but if I avoided it, there were wonders and bargains. Cheap but delicious buffets. Street shows. High value, high quality acts. All based upon a loss leader model where ideally they don't leave the casino with nothing, but hopefully in debt: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/5Xw2A4gcRhE
If you could restrain yourself in Sin City, you could have a good time. In 1996 I took my crazy redhead attorney girlfriend to a family (not THAT "family") run hotel across from the downtown police station for $20/night. The room was clean but spartan which was ok. Later, when I got married at ElvisChapel, I took my fiance on the bus (big spender) to get a marriage license and the driver regaled us with stories including that sometimes there would be couples getting on the bus in full wedding outfits to get their license and marriage the same day. I bought my wife a white cocktail dress for a wedding gown and ElvisChapel provided a veil, cake, limousine, champagne, video/photographer AND a darn good Elvis impersonator for $500 (plus tips, of course.). "Elvis" was jealous of me. I wish I had paid him a visit later to say hello. Walking with my wife around the casinos afterwards, hustlers from the casinos offered us minor comps to go in because my wife was hot. She got hit with hateful glaring from the frumpy regulars.
Today, Private Equity firm Vichi Capital has bought up the strip and raised prices. No more free drinks on the casino floor to dull you to gamble your life away. No more easy comped rooms for playing nickel slots. No more cheap buffets. Resort Fees are 2X what I paid entirely for that cheap room (plus tax). And the shows? They're all overpriced. Pro-Tip: it's cheaper to fly to Europe to see the acts.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
Hatchet-face seems to have a rather high opinion of her attractiveness.
At least she has no shortage of self-esteem.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Calm down, lady, and tell us what's wrong. Why are you so frustrated? That you went to a singles event you didn't want to go to? Maybe it's because you are getting old yourself and can't lock down men you find attractive? Is it that even the older chads you pick just never seem to be "ready" for a relationship?
I think you're just jealous. He's middle-aged and having a great time dating, while you know that you are slowly growing less attractive. How dare he have options and be more desirable than you are at such an age? How dare he get responses from any other women? You talked with him for an hour and thought you owned him.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I’m surprised none of you caught how it was gross of her to say it was her “time of the month” which was to remind us she’s still (sort of) fertile. She “didn’t want to go” and was willing to “give him a chance”. The latest lingo they have for this thinking is “avoidance tendencies” which in the 1950’s was called “playing hard to get” except she’s not playing.
I think she’s pissed at the realization that he’s 8 years ahead of her and yet doing better than she did in her early 30’s. She also appears to suffer from the common condition that she finds nearly all men unattractive yet is not inspired to compete for them. “The grapes on the vine are not easy to reach, so I suppose I’ll have to learn to live without them.”
I have a followup from her for next weekend that ties into this.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Nothing pisses off a woman whose primary (or even sole) tactic is playing keep away with their pussy quite like a man who has the ability and willingness to just go get other (and better, lol) pussy instead of dancing like a trained circus bear at her demand.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
It's astonishing, isn't it, how their egos get in their way? This woman had one of the hottest guys in the room hit on her and instead of being GRATEFUL, she's angry. "He has lots of women hitting on him! Why should I bother?" She wants an alpha male who thinks he's a beta but if he did think like a beta, for real, she'd "feel" "ick" and dump him.
This is childish thinking. My 10 yo does this a lot. I have to find clever ways sometimes to get her to do something not because she's so darn smart, but because it's better than trying to force her via punishment and she doesn't want to listen to reason. This is the primary reason why parents sometimes how to resort to corporal punishment.
Heaviuh_Things 1w ago
Absolutely. This is a usual knee jerk from the less attractive women. Once I made the "mistake" of telling a chubby chick I met online that a date with Daniela (the more attractive option that week) was on the cards. She got more offended than if I had called her daddy a pedophile.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
How dare he be attractive! But wait if he wasn't attractive you wouldn't be interested? Oh who cares what the hamster is up to.
Lady you should just have fun with him if you can because you have minimal chance of locking anyone down with a young hag face at only 40. Have one more ride on the carousel. You know you want to.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Hag face, indeed. And it ain't going to get any better at age 41, 42, 43 ...
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Yup. One thing guys need to realize is that at any given point, the image that a woman is putting forth is the best she will ever have to offer to him or anyone else.
They practically never improve with time. If she's a disaster at 25 she is not going to be better at 35 or 45.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 1w ago
Who is this FOR? I can't imagine even other 304 women wanting to watch her smear 8 kinds of lotion on her face while Sour Grapes Bitching about men!
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago Stickied
A different mod already removed your comment, but if you seek actual understanding and not just engagement, then from the WAATGM sidebar: Understanding the Purpose of WAATGM.
Shorter answer, just from me to you: if you don't like it, fuck right off and stay out of our threads.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
@Hugh_The_Great @Typo-MAGAshiv I read his comment (still in my queue) and I'd like to address his point, if you don't mind, without referring to it specifically:
The primary difference between young men who can't get girlfriends and leftovers such as this is that those young men are not setting unreasonable standards or demands that a majority of women cannot easily meet.
When my father met my mother at a dance hall in 1958, all of the women he asked to dance at least gave him 5 minutes and basic respect and the biggest test my mother used on him was to give him her name but NOT her phone number and he had to look it up in something called a Phone Book. A dear friend's mother gave her number to his father, but she wrote it under the table in the bar (which in hindsight was a dumb thing to do) so (get this) he STOLE the table! Then his father made him take the table back to the bar which was embarrassing.
Anyway, my point being that even back then, (young) women still wanted men to "earn" their affection but they at least made the "test" easy to complete or even a bit fun.
What makes this particular post so funny, I'll explain to you, is that this (aging) woman won the lottery. One of the few men she found "acceptable" was at an event, showed interest in her, but she's angry that he's HOT and has options so she doesn't dare try to "test" him much less a shit test most men wouldn't be able to complete even if they tried.
The WAATGM rules that are enforced (including against me with some of my posts rejected) require the women to be outrageously entitled, lazy, or demanding.
This would be like a horny, lonely guy having a pretty girl delivering a pizza and offering him sex in lieu of payment and then him rejecting her offer because she didn't deliver the correct pizza.
There's an actual scene in The Big Bang Theory that explores this concept: https://youtu.be/jXxlcSz3kIg?t=67
I hope this helps!
Hugo_The_Great 1w ago
It's true that most women really don't like being associated with average or below average men. And it's especially obnoxious if said women are not any higher in value themselves. Yes, it's delusional. But I guess they rather stay alone and die with 7 cats.
Also understand the point about wanting to educate men about carousel riders and to not be their welfare plan after they've had their fun. That is excellent.
I just chuckel at the schadenfreude here, though. That is surprising to me. I have the occasional chuckle myself when I hear from these women IRL/online, but collectively shitting on these genetic mistakes to me seems too easy/boring after a while. Like a cat playing with a mouse before he finishes it. But sure as @Typo-MAGAshiv mentioned I'll just fuck off from these threads
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Apologies for mistyping your handle.
It's my impression that these chronically single women "really don't like" men IN GENERAL. One of feminism's tenets is that men "hate women" and regard women as "objects" and dehumanize women and so on. What if this is merely projection on their part? That with social shaming against prostitution largely undermined with golddiggers, meal whoring, status seekers, and even entitlement queens being celebrated in media: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TF09CVCOyok&t=109s
So both as victims, and mercenary avarice, spinsters utterly regard romantic relationships with men as a chore, not a blessing, to gain other things from him. "Below average" or even "average" men will require she contribute SOMETHING to the relationship. That's like your employer asking you to buy your own uniform.
And yeah, that happened to me. A Roy Rogers I applied for work for back 40 years ago had the nerve to tell me to buy my own uniform out of a minimum wage salary.
The whole point is for you to chuckle but at the same time, it's educational as humor often is. In Larry Niven's Known Universe, Pierson's cowardly Puppeteers were incapable of humor because humor is creativity released by temporarily disabling a defense mechanism.
I don't think she's a genetic mistake. She's a product of her upbringing and a collective mistake of western civilization for the past 4 centuries.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1w ago
This video demonstrates that even when women win they can't help but get in their own way. She went to a 40s+ single event. And she's mad he's 48. According to women, if a hot man makes it to 48 and has never been married, he's suspect. So she has a man who was married, but is now separated, didn't hide his status from her. And she's mad at him for... Not being at the same life stage as an 18 year old? And of course, he's hot, approached her, spent hours chatting with her, respectfully asked to call her again, but she's upset that... He's desirable enough to be dating multiple women and not committing to her after 2 hours of talking? While she goes to a singles event where she expects to meet multiple guys?
I just can't fathom what her problem here is. It's one thing if they've been dating for months and he still hasn't agreed to an LTR, then sure, move on. But what do you expect to find in the real world that's better than what this guy is offering?
But of course, she will dump him because he's not fried ice, then make another tiktok where she's applying makeup to her RBF and complaining that there are no good men.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
You get a cookie! I thought the same but didn't post my thoughts because I wanted to see if someone else could navigate the labyrinth of this woman's entitlement: 1) He's "OK" looking (top 5%): Check! 2) He approaches her: Check! 3) He's super nice to her, doesn't say anything awkward (human): Check! 4) Preselected by other women (not some suspicious basement dweller for 28 years): Check!
But he: 1) Has options! (Because he's in the top 5%) 2) ONLY available because he's recently divorced (some other woman didn't grab him yet.) 3) DARED to find OTHER women more attractive than her before AND honest about it! She's only available after he DISCARDED the other ones!
Like... she ASKED him outright why he didn't jump on her on Hinge begging him to explain why he rejected her. That's like this gorgeous girl falling for you but she had quietly lost interest in you a year ago but forgot about it so you REMIND her that she rejected you and ask her WHY so she can go through, in her mind, the reasons why she found you less worthy.
Smart.
This is why they are using the new buzzword "avoidance tendencies" which is NewSpeak for "playing hard to get". She's such a prize that she'll mess up a relationship no matter what! Because men are unworthy of women who can do that. Fried ice.
How her life went about 2 weeks after this is up here: https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/325175/feeling_that_grief_doesn_t_mean_you_messed_up_your_life