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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1w ago
The world needs to stop engaging with women like this.
"You want to settle down with the kind of man who won't settle down, therefore you are fucked, next."
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1w ago
"You want to settle down with the kind of man who won't settle down with you, therefore you are fucked, next."
FTFY. But yes, otherwise I agree 100%. Only a women's hamster could devote multiple paragraphs of verbiage only to dance around the truth that everyone already knows.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago
Hamsters are very good dancers.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Lady wrote in to one of Britain's liberal newspapers seeking advice. Realises she will have to get off the carousel soon (has hit 40 and wants a husband). Can't recall the names of everyone she has had a 3 to 6 month relationship with but none of them were good enough except the one guy who lasted a year and then alpha widowed her. She likes bad boys but they treat her bad. Good boys treat her good but bore her. What is this poor girl to do gents? Even the columnist basically says "settle".
I can't help but think that this woman is defining bad boy as a guy above her SMV, possibly a bit of a player but a guy who knows his value and can treat her "badly" (without simping or only doing what she wants) and not get dumped for it while a good guy is a guy of equal or lower SMV who values her and can't afford to do anything but simp. I am dubious they were all actual bad boys -violent thugs, robbers, drug dealers, pimps, con men and such. I suspect they were mostly just guys out of her league. She got miscalibrated by the carousel and this is the result -impossible to satisfy so left on the shelf.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago
She got miscalibrated by the carousel and this is the result -impossible to satisfy so left on the shelf.
She got over valued by the carousel and this is the result -impossible to satisfy so left on the shelf.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2w ago
Bad boys aren't good, good boys aren't good.
Wat do, Uncle Einstein? Wat do??
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Buy a cat my dear, in fact buy several.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2w ago
The hot men won't commit; the committing men aren't hot.
Maybe-- and I know I'm probably way out of line saying this-- maybe you're too damn old to act like this? And if you haven't gotten in to some kind of a relationship now that you're a hundred leagues beyond your 'sell-by' date and you've already absorbed about 2 decades worth of courtship and 'finding yourself' with plenty of that addictive hawt hawt hawwwt ever so hawwwwt Bad Boy Cock-- a thousand blessings and peace upon the holy bad boys and death to the boring, stable men!-- maybe the bow of the vessel SS Marriage Hopes has settled beneath the waves with its props spinning in the air as cold ocean water floods the boiler room?
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Hey now! You just don’t BeLiEvE in her powers.
She’ll float away from the wreckage of the SS Marriage Hopes on the floating door while legions of her followers line up to drown like Leonardo DiCaprio just so they can get a whiff of her divine expiring feminine nature. God I hate that movie and its gynocentric nonsense.
How dare you good sir!
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
"... because as antiquated as it sounds, I really do want one"
Jesus, we're screwed as a society if 40 year old women can't even admit that they want a husband without these defensive caveats.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
Men and women are biologically hardwired to want and desire each other, but feminists would have everyone believe that this is somehow wrong or bad.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
They don't believe in any kind of hardwiring, they think it's all a political move.
See, thousands of years ago, a bunch of bearded old bastards got into a cave together and said "Let's pretend to like vaginas! That'll really mess with their heads. Me? I actually like cock, but pretending to like vaginas will make the ladyfolk easier to control, thus allowing us to indulge our wickedest flights of fancy! Muwahahah!"
And that is why they need laws to stop them from entering sexist wet t-shirt contests, and then 15 years later the next generation protests the sexist laws which kept them out of wet t-shirt contests.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
Kind of like how hashtag #PoundMeToo put a stop to flirting, etc and now a scant decade or so later wahmyns are bitching that men aren't hitting on them?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
Kind of like that, yeah.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Note the convenient, casual dismissal of her repetitively bad decisions. She left out the "Tee-hee!"
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
It's funny to hear this rationalization coming from a post-wall woman seeking a relationship:
By definition, any man she wants would have to accept that she is not only not at peak attractiveness he desires, but she is only getting LESS attractive by the literal day. I explained it to these women on X by envisioning a man losing 1cm of height per year after the age of 20.
She cannot reliably provide a man with children nor will she improve his financial situation (no huge tracts of land to offer).
Heaviuh_Things 1w ago
Why can’t I find a “bad boy” who is decent enough to want to settle down? Someone like that must exist?!
Sheesh....it's right under her nose. The answer is already there. If he's decent, he's no bad boy. If he's a bad boy, he's not decent.
Typical cognitive dissonance from these women.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
I'm wondering if women continue to pick bad boys not merely because of the thrill, but because they know it's guaranteed to end badly. Thereby, giving them what they were truly seeking: victimhood status. Forevermore, they can begin their dating profile with, "Just got out of an abusive relationshit ..." That gives them just as many tingles as the bad-boy pairing that was doomed from the start.
Heaviuh_Things 1w ago
You're on to something. Many women out there actually have poor self-esteem (including the many who do "sex work" for a living). Living on the edge of suffering all the time sounds exactly what they would do.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Women are the sole gate keepers of sex. Women choose who they want to have relationships with. The man initiates his interest in her, but she accepts or rejects him. It is HER choice, not his. If the man turns out to be a shitbag, it was her choice. But women refuse to acknowledge their failures and bad choices by blaming the man they choose as the problem. (If your baby daddy ain’t worth shit, then why did you let him into your vagina?)
No doubt men can be shitbags and men do shitty things all the time. If you don't want shitbags, then stop having sex with shitbags. If you don't want shitbag husbands, then stop marrying shitbags. If you don't want shitbags fathering your children, stop letting shitbags impregnate you. Want to know why men act like shitbags? Because women reward them for acting like shitbags. Women give shitbags lots of sex, lots of attention, and lots of deference and respect. When you reward shitbaggery, you get shitbags.
Think about this. If overnight, instead of women rewarding shitbags with sex, they rewarded the kindest, most loving, most caring, honest, hard working men, socially responsible men of society, all children would be loved and cared for and all women loved and protected. So ladies, step up to the plate and choose a good man for once, instead of f*cking the bad boys you complain so much about. That would be a real change for the better for everyone.
Such behavior would facilitate the creation of more good men. It would incentivize positive behavior from men and at the same time stigmatizing bad behavior women claim to hate. The problem is that women don’t hate such behavior, or if they do, their lust for Chad, Bad Boy, Gangbanger, Thug, Criminal, Ex-Con, etc., overcomes any hatred of bad behavior by these men. Women’s tingles override logic and reason. But for those women who choose the “tingles” mating strategy, it has been shown over and over again to end in failure. We don’t live in cave man times anymore. The days of Brains over Braun are here. And women who live in a bygone era of “tingles” lose, and lose big time. As proof, all one has to do is look at the kind of men single moms choose. Were they good men? Most likely not. They chose tingles and lost. A few of these single moms will find a Billy Beta to support them, but even the Billys are starting to wake up to the down sides of dating single moms.
I used to believe that good honest women sometimes made bad choices. Now, I know that is not true. This may be true for a very few, many more women pretend that they don’t want shitbags, but years of their choices are evidence to the contrary. Shitbags choose shitbags.
Updated 4/21/2024 Women have made this point. Players know how to manipulate women, but being played several times indicates poor decision making while not being able to learn from past mistakes. Choosing poor quality men over and over again while the vast majority of men are good, is a conscious decision. Blaming men for being bad bois does not correct the defective thought decisions that chooses bad bois in the first place. The corrective action is accountability, not blame or excuses.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
"But but how do you know? They spend all their days pretending to be kind and decent. And they trick innocent damsels like me into bed with them!! They've done that to me a hundred times! I didn't know there would be sex at his sex party! And I didn't know he'd sell those pictures of me online, like he did to all those other girls, etc etc etc..."
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
This is the dot reds. You can say "fucking". Check it out:
fuck! shit! piss! anus! twat! cock! cunt! faggot! flower! mullet!
Tag: @redpillschool
accountability is a tool of the patriarchy!
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Yes, yes, but can it do the racist words?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
No, none of that. We're a brotherhood.
It's OK to make realistic observations, such as a certain 13% of the population is responsible for over 50% of the violent crimes.
But no racial slurs or outright racist shit (real meaning, not the diluted leftist meaning obviously).
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Fine with me, most people can't even hear "observations" without resorting to name calling and ad hominem.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
BOB SAGET!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
I used to love some Tourettes Guy.
You can't do SHIT without your BALLS!
The last time I gave a SHIT, I got FUCKED!